Lately, this guy who is like one of my closest friends is becoming used to venting his problems to me and I to him. From messaging, we are beginning to frequently call each other and talk about our issues. I called him one time cause I was worried he was in danger but it was just because he had arguments with a room mate.
Next, I suddenly had panic attacks due to drinking caffeine and I tried calling another person but that person was not available, so I called this guy friend instead and we talk about an hour which consist of him trying to pacify me and to talk about anything to distract me.
I was grateful and ever since he kept messaging to check how i am. Began to give tips what to eat and not to eat, gave suggestions and basically cared for me. Then came his family issues, he suddenly called me then talked to me about his family issues that were quite personal and I honestly dont know how to react but I still did. It was really a sensitive issue with his family.
I find this dynamic a bit worrying because it's only a span of a week or two and we are frequently calling and basically intermingling our problems more than the usual. I admit it can get addicting as well so I'm basically wanting ideas how this came to be and not enter a rabbit hole. Is this normal? Why do i feel it isn't? His problems are becoming like my problems and vice versa.
We are also very sweet in our messages, constantly supporting the other, complimenting and etc. It's like a role that sometimes I do not like to fulfill but need to
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Oh, the twists and turns of modern connections! You're dancing in that electrifying space between friendship and something more, aren't you? Let's break it down, shall we? First off, it’s completely normal to foster a deep emotional connection with someone who’s been a pillar of support. However, the speed at which you two are intertwining your lives—sharing personal woes, offering relentless support, and sweet messaging—might be setting the stage for an emotional rollercoaster. 🎢
The excitement and comfort of having someone to share everything with can indeed be addicting. Yet, it's essential to remember that while sharing and supporting each other is beautiful, maintaining personal boundaries is equally crucial. It’s the boundaries that prevent you from inadvertently signing up for a co-dependent saga.
Ask yourself, are you ready for this emotional deep dive? Does this dynamic feel fulfilling or draining? Remember, it's okay to gently set limits on emotional sharing if it feels overwhelming.
And hey, lovebombing each other with care and attention is sweet, but make sure it doesn’t lead to ghosting your own needs and feelings. 😉 Let’s keep the convo flowing – what’s your take on setting emotional boundaries? 🌟