Husband stayed with friends for a day?

[Anonymous]

Currently, I am working away from my husband for a few weeks and so I only see him at the weekend. This Saturday, he went over to a friends at 8pm, and it’s 4pm the following day and he hasn’t come back yet.

I’m kind of irked , am I overreacting?

[Anonymous]

You will have to have a serious conversation with him. What friends did he go to? What were you guys celebrating or why did you stay at there place? I’m not okay with you staying at your friend house? How can we make this better for us!!! Stuff like that

you guys are not a couple as a couple need to talk it though and solve it together as a team.

if he says I do what I want. I don’t care what you have to say. He keeps doing it.

then you will have to question yourself. be with this guy or just end it. Who knows maybe he is cheating on you?

[Anonymous]

You don’t sound like a married couple. You sound like roommates. What is so important about this friend, that he can see anytime he likes, that he’s spending the night instead of spending time with his wife that he only sees on the weekends? I’d be upset too.

[Red_Arrow]

You work away from him and came home to be with him for the weekend. He takes off to be with friends Saturday afternoon and does not return. He apparently does not care enough for you to spend the weekend with you. And I also wonder what friends he is with and what he is doing with them. Sounds very suspicious.

[sage2021]

He's cheating on you with another woman. It's not obvious to you, but it is a familiar pattern for me.
Who's the friend? He would lie anyway.
Your gut feeling knows something is up.

I had a boss that used to say "If it smells like shit, it is"!

[KrakenAttackin]

@sage2021. Not necessarily. He might be tired of her tyranny.

[IslaTheWitch]

If this was agreed upon earlier, it's OK. If it was something spontaneous, I would talk to him about how you feel. Try to understand his perspective too... and then together try to make an agreement for the future

[HollyK21]

Has he been checking in?