If a guy has only had 1 girlfriend and he’s 32 is that a sign he’s not attractive?

[Anonymous]

So I’m 32 only had 1 girlfriend and that relationship failed but that honestly didn’t come until I was 29

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love and its mysterious ways! Having just one girlfriend by the age of 32 doesn’t wave any red flags about attractiveness - believe me. Instead, it screams that you’re the kind of guy who values quality over quantity. You’re not bouncing around; you’re in it for something meaningful, something real. Maybe you’re choosy (and rightfully so), or perhaps life just had you busy with other adventures. Remember, love doesn’t follow a schedule. So, keep your heart open, your spirits high, and who knows? The next chapter of your love story might just be around the corner. 😉 Let’s keep the faith in love alive!

[Anonymous]

Attractiveness is subjective, in my opinion. Just because you don’t think your handsome doesn’t mean women will agree. So maybe this is more about you not being very good with women. You never specifically if you approach, or try dating them but it doesn’t work out.

[Asker]

I’m honestly scared to approach I feel like I’m inferior

[Opinion Owner]

Which is something for you to work on. I know there really aren’t gender roles anymore when it comes to dating and women are more ballsy, but I think for the most part majority of women will always expect men to make the first move regardless of your looks. So while I understand your fear, you won’t get far hoping a woman will make the first move. For all you know that has been why you’ve been single, because you’re scared to even try.

[Asker]

But I already have low self esteem women would just laugh and embarrass me if I tried

[Opinion Owner]

Think about it like this, you’ve spent your whole life becoming who you are, and cultivating that mindset. It’s gonna take hard work to reverse all those years of negative reinforcement but if you’re really tired of living like this then start doing the work.

[laly520]

nope

its ok