What do you think about roommate with benefits?

[sexyback]

Do you think that is a stupid thing to do?

[RoronoaZoro8]

Whether a "roommate with benefits" situation is considered a wise or foolish choice depends on various factors, including the individuals involved, their boundaries, expectations, and communication skills. While some may navigate such arrangements successfully with clear communication and mutual respect, others may encounter complications, such as blurred boundaries, emotional attachment issues, or conflicts arising from differing expectations. It's essential for those considering such an arrangement to carefully assess the potential risks and benefits and to communicate openly and honestly with their roommate to ensure mutual understanding and respect. Ultimately, what works for one person may not work for another, so it's crucial to make decisions based on individual circumstances and values.

[AviatorTom]

I think it's very nice for roommates to share benefits, like sharing WiFi and video streaming passwords.

[Iron_Man]

Not me they run up my bill

[4ngelic]

she wasn't talking about that kind of benefits lol

[AviatorTom]

@4ngelic Someone might want to learn about sarcasm

[4ngelic]

it's dumb unless you'd be open to dating them, cos in that situation it's only a matter of time before at least once ends up catching feelings

[WhitneySnow]

No but don’t fall for the person if all you are is roommates with benefits

[teapot]

That's one of those topics where you tread into "it's complicated" territory pretty fast. On one hand, it sounds like a convenient setup. You get the perks of living with someone you get along with, plus some extra benefits without the hassle of a traditional relationship. It's like having your cake and eating it too—literally sharing the cake with the person you live with.

But then there's the flip side. Mixing living situations with benefits can get messy. What happens if feelings develop for one person but not the other? Or if one of you starts dating someone else? Suddenly, you're not just dealing with a roommate disagreement about who left dishes in the sink—you're navigating a whole web of emotions and potentially jeopardizing your living situation.

From what I've seen, communication and clear boundaries are key if you're even considering this. Both parties need to be on the same page about what's okay, what's not, and have a plan for if things start to shift in a direction one or both of you didn't expect. Without that, you're basically setting yourself up for a sitcom-level series of awkward situations and, possibly, a fallout that's anything but funny.

Think it through, talk it out, and maybe have a backup plan. And remember, sometimes, it's okay to just be roommates without the benefits—it can save a lot of headaches down the line.

[SolitarySolace]

Sure maybe while you’re single but once you meet someone you want to have a monogamous relationship with or who wants to be in a monogamous relationship with you a benefits roommate would really fuck things up. Especially if that roommate is living with you. Your partner will have trust issues and probably hate your roommate with a passion

[Drew-1990]

I don't think it is a wise decision at all, just a huge risk for drama. I'm not a fan of friends with benefits either but it's not my life or decision but again I think this is just unwise and you would be risking a bit of drama.

[mandyfire98]

I had one back in college. She was my roommate, then girlfriend, then friend with benefits, then back to being my girlfriend.

[lightbulb27]

why not just date then? you are sharing everything. Either way if it goes sour, you've got stress to move or live in stress.

Just officially date, get a ring and go from there.

[TheNumbersSevenTwo]

Having to live with the person afterwards if something goes wrong makes it a lot more risky. Both people would have to be very safe and secure with each other about boundaries, expectations, trust, and emotional maturity, because if something goes awry and there’s discomfort or animosity, the living situation would become toxic.

[abc3643]

I did that in 1988. I regret it... but don't...
Still, it led to a broken heart and a lousy rebound relationship later.

[camerum]

Can get complicated but if everyone is consenting and on the same page...
Lots of potential for threesomes...

[dragoblack]

Works out better than current relationships people get themselves into. Only difference between modern relationships and roommates with benefits is the emotional attachment. Once the sex gets stale, they will probably just go other ways

[RebelinSteel]

If you can handle a breakup, then it’s fine if you can’t then don’t have it.

[DarkWinterNights]

A even worse idea than dating or hooking up with a coworker. If things go south where are you going to go? Especially in this housing crisis.

[genericname85]

well what will you do if things get awkward? can't just get away without completely moving all your shit away.

[Peter_Penetrator]

How bad do you need their half of the rent? Are you willing to make that trade?

[JacobJordan]

Might as well date. You already live together.

[Phoenix98]

It is a stupid thing to do, don't do it, to many risks to many downsides.

[AustColombiangirl]

I live with 3 guys that can fuck me whenever they want

[BrookeS]

A freeuse slut!! Perfect example of a slut

[Iron_Man]

Not a good idea they won’t pay you what you’re looking for in rent

[EndlessVoid20]

It depends on the person in my opinion, but overall I don't think it's a bad thing.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It was useful in college.

[bobalife]

Hot but too messy… so not the best idea