There are soo many things that happened with me. That I stopped trusting people? Is it happened with u too? How to overcome this?

[Anonymous]

When I was small , I trusted people a lot who are close to me but most of them betrayed me and left me alone in my dark phase so that's how I got abandonment issues , trauma and mental issues. I never left them in their dark phase, I was there by their side but they did so easily once their work is done.
But now things changed I got new friends but still I can't trust them , can't openly talk to them, and it's creating problem. They think that I'm not interested but I'm but it's just that it's hard for me to get close to someone and that's why I can't make close friends or can't even date someone. Also it's really difficult for me to express emotions I don't know why.

[Anonymous]

I found a Master. Now, I must say that my journey to find a Master was a challenging one. I had grown weary of trusting people, however, one day, I encountered a most remarkable individual who not only accepted but loved me.

This Master commanded my unwavering devotion. She saw the potential in my ability to cleanse her smelly feet with my tongue, to take a beating whenever I was disrespectful, to pour her champagne and deny myself of pleasure.

Now, I am the Master and I can certainly break you of your trust issue and delusional thinking. But you must call me Master and learn the three commandments.

[Asker]

Shut up

[strateguy632]

dont overcome it. don't trust.

when someone suggests you do, anything, don't trust and don't obey. wait to see if really act like a friend and earn your trust.

but con also earns trust:

"lend me a dollar" then returns it.

later ask for 5!

so you say "i lent you already. no more! "

[kylee2437]

Honestly I think it’s just the world we live in today. Because everyone has this defense mechanism of not trusting people, people have also turned into the people they can’t even trust. The cycle repeats and people are constantly hurting each other

[IslaTheWitch]

you need help to sort out your past and emotions. Ask the specialist for help. Do the therapy as @NathanDavis mentioned. Trust issues rarely disappear on their own. You need to make peace with your past first

[flautistnaturist]

people aren't to be trusted anyway. scripture declares such trust to be a curse. the only valid thing to trust about people is God's influence in them, as they permit it. He is present with the humble, the remorseful, in the praises of His people, and is an everpresent help in trouble. outside of these contexts, there is nothing trustworthy about humanity as a whole.

[glennos89]

Don't let the bad experiences of your past be a burden in your future. Give every new person you get to know a fresh chance to show you who they really are. You will come across many people that aren't worth Investing time in during your life. Just make sure that the ones who are worthy investing your time in aren't dismissed because of your past experiences

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yep, you overcome it by reading people better and not getting to comfortable when meeting new people

[Asker]

Cool that's what I do lol

[Juxtapose]

You give people small opportunities to betray you and you judge how consistent they are over time. That's how you determine if someone's trustworthy in my experience.

[Anonymous]

Pretty simple. I don't expect anything out of people anymore. I have a very short list of people I care about and everyone else is an acquaintance to me.

[Asker]

Expectation is worst tbh

[MrZameer]

Dear you need to sort out this,
Basically you need a good and trustworthy friend, with whom you can share everything and trust them fully.

[Asker]

Cool , I can't

[MrZameer]

Why can't?

[JHAYES317]

You should probably get therapy. I have trust issues as well, mainly from my mom lying to me on several occasions

[Jennz6]

I understand what you’re going through

[Asker]

Ikkkk🥺🥺

[LiamJHayden]

I get past it by not judging those who had nothing to do with the betrayal.

[Jay-_-]

Yes does happen it happend to me with all my "closest friends".

[NathanDavis]

therapy is a very good option

[Asker]

👍that's what I'm doing.

[NathanDavis]

this, I am glad to hear...