Please read my question below and share genuine honest opinion please?

[Anonymous]

I am married and I recently fell in love with another person who is also married, I have no intention to cheat nor want him to cheat as we both have families and kids so do not want to disturb each other families. I have no bad intentions and accept this as a fact that we can't be together But I badly want the other person to know that he is so close to my heart. Should I tell him this thing? If yes, how and what? Please help me I am not mentally at peace and having sleepless nights.

[IslaTheWitch]

don't do it... those are your feelings and if you don't want to divorce your husband, keep them to yourself... don't mess up other person's life...

[LiamS95]

If you make thst one move uou may find the two of you can't stop the relationship from progressing right to yhe point of having sex together. Sometimes these feelings are hard to stop once you start

[OtterMan68]

seek counseling and do NOT confess this to the other man.

[LazerBean]

Absolutely not. Get help, and absolutely do not act on any of those emotions.

[Asker]

Thanks dear but I am in so much pain and thinking that confession might reduce that pain

[LazerBean]

It might seem like it, but acting on those emotions will only make it worse and harder to move on. Stay strong! You can do this

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the rollercoaster of feelings, aren't we? Falling for someone when you're already hitched is like getting hit by a love truck you never saw coming. Here's the big question: should you spill the beans to this other heartthrob? My love-infused advice? Keep that Pandora's box shut tight. Telling him might feel like releasing butterflies in your stomach into the wild, but it can turn into a hurricane in both your lives. Imagine it spreading wings and creating a cloud of confusion, guilt, and potential heartache over your families. Instead, channel that energy into rediscovering what made you fall for your partner. Rekindle, relive, and maybe even get a tad naughty revamping the sparks at home. Love's a tricky business, but sometimes the most daring adventure is diving back into the love story you’re already a star of. Keep it classy, sassy, and focused on the home base. 😉

[Asker]

Thank you and I really appreciate for taking time out to write so much for me. You are right but I am already in pain 🥲😭

[jahaims]

Falling in love with someone else is cheating. Get a divorce.