If you are good friends with someone you slept with, then you find that special one you want to marry… do you have to dump your friend?

[BadApple69]

Do you say goodbye to a long time friend because you slept with her in the past? Or do you tell the one you want to marry that you and your good friend was once fuck buddies way back during lonelier times. Or do you just not tell her?

[PeachyPie93]

I would never sleep with a good friend because I wouldn't want to lose that relationship. But If I did and I was getting married I would get rid of the "friend" because I wouldn't want my husband to ever get hurt if they found out. Plus I kind of like to get rid of people once im done with them anyways lol.

[DrPepper12]

Anyone, doesn't matter who, that wants you to drop any friends better bring the receipts as to why. At my wedding We had a relative ask if "so and so" was coming, we said yes. And then she said "well I don't think that's inappropriate if I'm going to be there". We said you know what you're right and didn't invite the rude Karen relative who had the audacity and immaturity to ask such a stupid question. Fuck her. My life, not yours.

[exitseven]

I had a a few female friends when I got married. I never had sex with any of them but they were an important part of my life. My wife was very jealous of them and it caused a lot of friction in my marriage. I pretty much stopped seeing them and eventually lost touch. Now that I am older I wish I stillbhad them in my life

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[katiesmuff]

Well much depends if you are beginning to date that special someone or is it just wishful thinking. If it is just wishful thinking might as well keep pumping your friend, If your beginning to date the special one, your done banging the friend.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating friendship waters when you've got a love story brewing with someone new can be as tricky as a dance on a tightrope. Here's the deal, transparency is key in any relationship, especially if you're thinking this special someone could be your forever after. Keeping secrets about past flings, especially if they're still in your life as a friend, can backfire quicker than a lovebomb gone wrong. Imagine this scenario: it comes out later, and not from you. Ouch, right? That's a red flag you don't want flying. So, have a heart-to-heart with your new love. Explain the nature of your friendship now, emphasizing that your shared past is just that—past. It's all about how you frame it; honesty, with a touch of sensitivity, can go a long way. Trust me, it's better they hear it from you, with your narrative. 💌👀 Plus, it shows you value transparency and trust in your relationship. Now, isn't that a foundation you want to build on?

[MemeSupreme]

nah just be honest about it and open. you did your part by doing that

yeah it'll be weird but if she's GENUINELY a good friend then you can't get rid of em. if it's someone you barely talk to then just distance yourself but you don't gotta unfriendly them

[strateguy632]

correct dump, break up end the relationship. if you continue while dating future spouse, they will call you a cheater two timer.

[Bricealan]

That 'Good friend" would ALWAYS be my good friend... and can't imagine dumping her for that person you suggest would be the Special One... My good friend, IS the special one!!!

[slatyb]

"In the past" -- why would you drop them? If your new partner insists that you do, keep the friend and dump the new person.

[Dinklex3]

Depends on what you and your partner decide.

[Dinklex3]

Always tell your partner though.

[Drumlin2001]

You should certainly be very clear about situation with new partner, and not hide anything (like hanging out without letting them know).

[Nikki1989]

Never. Good friends are for life.

[BadApple69]

I agree. Girlfriends might come and go but good friends are for life. That’s why I didn’t tell the girlfriend that my friend (who she is friends with now) we had slept together.

[DextroShade]

Any woman who still is in contact with dudes she's fucked is disqualified from a marriage with me.

[KrakenAttackin]

Would you want your wife hanging around a guy who use to go balls deep in her?

[Yannae]

No. She's not a girlfriend.

[avery58]

Yesss

[jahaims]

Yeah