I don't know what is his problem but this is so annoying. He is the one who turns things into arguments and when I respond, he wants to leave the house and go away. I told him to stay many times and begged.. But after our last argument, he wanted to go away again and I said fine.. He seemed shocked. We are together for 2 months only. This is very immature.
Dump him , he is a selfish immature person , when a partner can easily leave the house after an argument , it’s just an excuse for their selfish behavior. He is clearly trying to play a victim , when really he is the piece of shit. If he was mature , he would just walk into another room after an argument with you, to calm down and then talk to you without yelling , like a mature person would do. But instead he only thinks about himself , You are best to end it with him and find yourself someone more mature
Respect his wishes and let him be. This is not how you resolve conflict. If that's how he deals with it then he shouldn't be in a relationship at all. He's too childish and immature to be in a relationship. The first six to twelve months of your relationship should be close to perfect if he already acts like that that's a huge red flag. You should also never beg for someone to stay with you. I think you need to make that decision yourself before is too late. And when you do it make sure you cut all forms of contact and block him everywhere so he can't contact you and ask to go back to you.
Does he drink alcohol and or do drugs. That would be my guess.
I doubt if he's drug free and alcohol free with that kind of personality.
Who needs that? You were right to tell him to keep on going.
That kind of relationship wouldn't have lasted. That's not love either.
Wait for a better guy to come along - and one will, you'll see.
Be patient and wait for someone better.
Either don't argue with him , or break up , forget all the nonsense threats , constant arguing is no way to live.
Ah, the classic "breakup-to-make-up" routine. It sounds like your beau might be using breakups as a way to gain control during arguments, which, let's be honest, is about as stable as a house of cards in a windstorm. Two months in and you're already playing emotional ping-pong? That’s a red flag dressed in neon lights. Communication is key in any relationship, but it's not just about staying to argue or begging him to stay. It’s about understanding why these arguments escalate to breakups. Next time things are calm, try having a heart-to-heart about how these breakups make you feel and suggest healthier ways to navigate disagreements. Remember, love should feel like a safe harbor, not a boxing ring. If he's not willing to work on this with you, it might be time to ask yourself if this relationship is worth the emotional rollercoaster.
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make it final. Tell him one more time he breaks up and you are history.
His behavior is very toxic and you shouldn't let him act like that toward you.
"fix" by ending it.
no mature person does this and no mature and intelligent person will stick with a person who does so.
I had a girlfriend like this... I think she knew how attached I was to her and she weaponized that. Just break up with him for real. You don't want to stay in that cycle. Trust me. That road leads to madness.
Is he the last man on your planet? Fixing this is easy. Stop seeing him and date an adult.
That’s manipulative and narcissistic. Leave him once and for all. You deserve better
Tell him to Grow Up and start acting his age, or else just go and don't come back.
First you shouldn't be arguing or participating in one. Second he needs to grow up a bit more
You're way too old for this middle school behavior. Confront it and tell him it's unacceptable or just cut ties
Good on u for seeing this.
Let him go. Let him walk off. You’re right it’s very immature. No one needs that.
Bye bye boyfriend.
First off. How often do you guys argue? You fix it by not taking them back right away. Then next time he wants to break up. He'll think twice about it.
You're a fool for putting up with it after the first time.
And yet you are still with this guy. What does that say about you and women in general?
This mad funny mo point in trying to keep a “relationship” that pretty much over anyways
Break up with him. End it cause he’s being a child.
If this is what you have at 2 months, I don't see it getting better for you.
He does not like your presence and weaponise the argument to stay away from you
Don't waste your time. Move on
Leave him. He clearly is not afraid to lose you.
Dump him and get a mature guy
End arguments quicker, or break up with him.
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