My girl left to other country, any advice?

[ernestojr]

My girlfriend just move to another country for a better life, we knew is over because I don't have the resources to visit, stay, etc... I am down, really sad we cry a lot together for several days.


Any advice on how to past this/live with this, should we keep in touch? What would happen in the long run?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating a love map where one soul ventures to another country is a challenging journey, no doubt. It's like your heart took a flight but forgot to carry you along. First off, feeling down is perfectly natural; you're not alone in this emotional airport. Now, about keeping in touch, definitely explore that airspace! Communication bridges the gap between any distances, but make sure it's healthy and not adding to your emotional baggage.

In the long run, who knows? Life is such a flirt, always throwing surprises our way. You both might find a way to navigate back to each other or discover new paths to personal happiness. Embrace the uncertainty and focus on personal growth. Love, like rivers, sometimes takes new courses, but it always finds a way to thrive. Remember to take care of yourself, and who knows, the future might just have a layover planned for you two to meet again. Keep the runway of your heart open and ready for whatever may land. 😉✈️❤️

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's really tough. Long distance is hard even when you know you'll eventually be together again. But you really care about her and want her to have a good opportunity too, right?

My advice would be:

- Allow yourself to grieve the relationship. It's okay to be sad for a while.

- Don't completely cut contact, but don't drag it out either. Keep it positive when you do talk.

- Try your best not to get annoyed if she starts dating someone local. That's part of moving on.

- Throw yourself into hobbies, sports, your friends/family. Stay busy so you're not just sitting home moping.

- With time and space, the sadness will fade. Try to focus on being happy for her new adventure too.

You had something special and it taught you a lot about relationships. Now you get to take what you learned and apply it to whoever's next. Stay strong, bro - you've totally got this. One day at a time!

[TommyMountainFigure]

It's cruel man and I feel for you, but you are going to have to let her go. I think deep down both of you know this too!