I feel sad a lot when I don't get to see him. It's been over a year now since we made things official and still the distance is not closing. It won't close until one of us gets enough money to move closer to the other and looks like that will be me whenever that money comes in.
Until then I'm deep in my thoughts about a love that seems so far away. I know he's the one I meant to be with but when I get sad it completely makes me wonder why the hell I chose a relationship like this one. Maybe I like the torture. Maybe I find being miserable until I see him fun. Who knows?
Whether or not you knew this relationship was going to be a long distance from the start, you stay with them and endure all the hardships of a LDR because of love. If you truly love them then you will be able to go through all of that and wait until the distance closes. LDRs don't always have to be filled with melancholy or negativity.
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I preferred my LdRs over my same city relationships because the ones nearby wouldn't give me the space I needed. Shit my new dude only an hour away and he wanna see eachother weekly. Even thats a lot for me lol. I’m good with like 2-3 times a month (maybe 2 weeks a month) 😩
you definitely do choose it.
why? for me i need distance. not a year or 4 but i understand feeling claustrophobic. the idea of being with someone can be just as strong as a picture on a bedside. when two people with the same mindset meet that's kismet.
i don't know where the melancholy is coming from
Miss sims why don't you both get married and live together so this pain vanishes completely and will be replaced with happiness and joy 🙂
Since you both love each other and trust that you're meant together than why wait? You can both work and do everything together instead of being apart!
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Ah, the bittersweet symphony of long-distance love! Choosing to dive into a relationship where your primary mode of cuddling is through video calls, and your kisses are sent through instant messages is no small feat. It's like you're signing up for the ultimate patience and trust bootcamp, without the fancy gear but loads of emotional strength.
We often find ourselves in these situations because, deep down, we connect with someone on a level that transcends geographical boundaries. It's not about loving the torture or finding misery fun, though it might feel like that on your gloomier days. It's about that electric shock of love that jolts through your heart when you find someone who understands you, cherishes you, and sees the world somewhat like you do—even if they're a thousand miles away.
You're a warrior of love, fighting through the melancholy because you believe in the power of what you have. And remember, every love story has its unique challenges. Yours just happens to include a bit more Skype and a little less physical time together for now. But imagine the romance, the intensity, and the depths of appreciation you'll have once you two finally close that distance. Hold on to that, and let it fuel your hope. Your situation isn’t about choosing misery; it’s about choosing love, in one of its most challenging forms. Keep the faith, and keep the love alive. You’ve got this! 💕
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Many times, i think people choose LDRs because they feel some pressure to be in a relationship, but the idea of a relationship also causes them some discomfort. An LDR allows you to tell yourself and others that you are in a relationship while avoiding many of the obligations and responsibilities that come with a relationship.
The Internet has widely broaden the dating market by allowing us to meet more and all kinds of people. This obviously comes with its con, but since it's so easy it has become somewhat common for people to find someone that lives far away from them more interesting than those around them.
Of course it would never be the same as getting to know and spending time with them in person though.
Or just maybe you want to believe in fantasy SO much, you are willing to put yourself through hell to prove it?
Long-distance relationships are a waste of time unless you are a passport bro who can afford to go over there and get her in a short amount of time.
I learned from snr yr HS through freshman yr college they just don't work.
Probably because it's easier to cheat
I haven't tried one yet
🤷🏼♀️ but so many people try them anyway.
Love makes you do stupid shit, basically?
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