Me (23f) and my boyfriend (23m) are in relationship from past 1 year we had our ups and downs but never gave up on each other. He actually wanted to purse higher studies so even I thought our future will be better so we both applied to the USA for masters. We got admits from same University but my visa got approved and his visa got rejected. And the intake that is available again is for January. So he's like why to waste 6 months I will try for UK. He told me to go ahead with my studies because opportunities don't come often and we can work it out long distance.
But I m very confused what to do I thought if it's same country it would be easy to have a good career together and build our future. I wanted to go to UK too with him but in family everyone is settled in USA so my parents won't accept UK that easily because having a good career there is very tough. I just really love him very much i don't wanna loose.
Very confused should I go ahead with my USA plan and do long distance or should I talk in my home and go to UK with him?
TL;DR - me and my boyfriend both got admits for masters (USA) but my visa got approved and his got rejected so he's planning for different country now UK. But he's like it's once in a lifetime opportunity go-ahead with USA we can do long distance. But I feel that if we live in same country it will be easy to build a future together. Should I go ahead with USA plan or convince in my home to go with him to UK which is tough because my parents are already happy with my visa?
I just don't wanna loose him. I really want this to work.
What do you guys suggest?
But I m very confused what to do I thought if it's same country it would be easy to have a good career together and build our future. I wanted to go to UK too with him but in family everyone is settled in USA so my parents won't accept UK that easily because having a good career there is very tough. I just really love him very much i don't wanna loose.
Very confused should I go ahead with my USA plan and do long distance or should I talk in my home and go to UK with him?
TL;DR - me and my boyfriend both got admits for masters (USA) but my visa got approved and his got rejected so he's planning for different country now UK. But he's like it's once in a lifetime opportunity go-ahead with USA we can do long distance. But I feel that if we live in same country it will be easy to build a future together. Should I go ahead with USA plan or convince in my home to go with him to UK which is tough because my parents are already happy with my visa?
I just don't wanna loose him. I really want this to work.
What do you guys suggest?
