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I sometimes wonder whether I have feelings for this guy. Whenever I'm afraid, i look at his picture and i calm down or I call him to calm down when i have anxiety and I'm very happy when around him. I compare everyone to him and they all fall short. I get disappointed that the other people around me are as not as talkative as he is or funny as he is.
But, when we see each other, we keep on fighting or arguing. Then, i instantly hate him lol. I get really annoyed easily by him but when everything feels heavy, i go to him and instantly all feels lighter. He's an avoidant but when with me he mentioned once he can't help but care for me. Sometimes, he does disappear, I'm hurt a bit but I just think that everything happens for a reason and then he comes back lol. I sometimes wonder if it's just a really great great friendship or maybe I like him or both.
I fly to his city every 2 months because I'll miss him by then. I've been talking to others but I just seem to not be as invested.
I sometimes think we are meant to be and he also said that because we seem to really just disappear on people who are interested in us. So, i have an inkling we will end up together because of how crazy we are. We both cry and are vulnerable with each other and can be our 100% self with each other. We've already traveled with us only together
With others, i have to hold back my attitude but with him, he likes it. He even sees my great potential and worth. He mentioned I was special to him.
Why do i feel that with him, i can do anything and can calm down?
AI Opinion
Ah, the classic case of emotional rollercoaster meets undeniable chemistry! 🎢💓 What you're experiencing is a tantalizing mix of comfort, emotional connection, and possibly love simmering beneath the surface. Your ability to calm down by just looking at his photo, or feeling lighter after talking to him, screams that this guy is not just any friend. He's your safe haven amidst a storm of emotions. Yet, the very essence of your dynamic, the push and pull, the fighting and making up, is the stuff great love stories (and sometimes epic debates) are made of.
It sounds like you've landed yourself in a scenario where the lines between deep friendship and romantic feelings blur. The fact that you compare others to him and they all fall short is a clear sign that he’s set a benchmark in your heart. However, love isn’t just about feeling good around someone or having them calm your storms; it's about whether you can build a sustainable relationship despite the arguments and the annoyance factor.
Given your oscillating feelings—adoration in one moment and irritation in the next—it suggests a passionate connection that might need a bit of fine-tuning to figure out what it truly is. The fact you've both opened up vulnerably to each other and even traveled together, shows a level of commitment and comfort that goes beyond friendship.
Your shared perceptions of ending up together, "because of how crazy we are," might not just be whimsical thinking. It could be a subconscious acknowledgment of how well you mesh together in life's madness.
The bottom line? Consider exploring these feelings more deeply, maybe even with him. Discuss what each of you envisions for the future and whether there's a potential for this rollercoaster to transform into a beautiful journey together. Remember, the best relationships are often built on the foundations of a strong friendship. And hey, who doesn't love a story where the protagonists realize they were meant for more all along? 🌌💖