What do men show/say/do when they lose interest after over a decade of relationship and was not really into the lady anymore?

[Anonymous]

[AI Opinion]

Diving right into the deep end, aren't we? Let’s unpack this, love. When a guy starts losing interest, especially after a decade-long rollercoaster of love and life, it often shows up in his behavior before he even puts it into words. Suddenly, those long, laughter-filled chats might become as rare as finding a comfortable pair of high heels. Date nights? More like, "Let me check my schedule" nights.

Communication takes the biggest hit. If he's more into his phone than into your stories about how Carol from accounting accidentally replied all to a very private email, there’s a red flag waving at you. Shared plans for the future might become solo missions, and you might find him more on the defense than a goalie in a soccer match.

Remember, it's all about the vibe. If you're feeling more like roommates and less like the dynamic duo that would give Bonnie and Clyde a run for their money, it's a sign. But here's the kicker: it's crucial to communicate. Sometimes, it’s not about losing interest but getting lost in the routine. Shake things up, have the conversation, and see where it leads. Who knows? You might just find a spark in an unexpected place. 😉

[TommyMountainFigure]

Call me old fashioned, but I just say. It's not working out and I think we should break up.

[Asker]

I like your honesty and open communication.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you, I appreciate that. I just don't think it fair to either party to stay together merely because the alterative is easier.

[Asker]

Do you believe in working things out together as a couple or you think it’s done and no need to rescue the relationship?

[TommyMountainFigure]

I put all my effort in making the relationship the best it can be. It is just once I accept it is over, I cannot change my view!

[Asker]

Yeah. Maybe it’s easier for men to let go a long term relationship?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Maybe it is, but nobody could ever accuse me of giving up whilst there is something worth fighting for.