In a relationship where the guy is 23 and the girl is 17, could the guy be making fun of his friends about the girl? Or he may hide this relationship?

[Anonymous]

They may be talking bad about the girl

the guy might be hiding the relationship from his friends (since some might call him pedo)

he might love her

[AI Opinion]

Jumping into the heart of it, love knows no bounds, but societal norms and laws certainly do! A relationship with a significant age gap, especially when one party is under 18, can be a tricky terrain not just emotionally but legally. It's not uncommon for someone in this situation to keep it under wraps, perhaps out of fear of judgment or legal implications. Hiding a relationship can also stem from insecurity or not being fully comfortable with the dynamic themselves. As for making fun, well, that's a red flag for immaturity and disrespect, regardless of age. Every relationship deserves to be rooted in respect, understanding, and openness. If secrecy and mockery replace openness and respect, it's time to reassess what's truly being shared in the relationship. Remember, love should lift you up, not keep you hidden or feeling less than fabulous!

[BarryLiverstone]

Could be all of these things. Has the girl met his friends?

[Asker]

No she didn't

[BarryLiverstone]

Hmm that’s sus. He may be hiding. Where have they been on dates?

[Asker]

mostly at home or a cafe

[BarryLiverstone]

Ya if his friends don’t go to the cafe he might be embarrassed. Has he met her friends?

[BarryLiverstone]

At least she’s told you about him