My friend gives me relationship advices all the time?

[Anonymous]

I have never been in a relationship
I was raised in a very conservative eastern country and interacting with girls was only as colleagues or relatives

I moved to Europe last year
I have a lot of female friends now
One of them I really like

She always tells me relationship advices and sends me reels about how to choose a good partner
At some point she told me that I am the closest person to her in our new city

She gave me 3 books to read about relationships and we discuss the content regularly

At some point I hinted to her that I like her
Not sure if she missed it or what
But we talked closely for a week and she said that she had zero luck with partner and everything stayed the same

We are still talking about relationships all the time
She told a friend of hers that I have great qualities that makes me a great partner
and that people like me should be snatched out of the market (that was 2 months ago )


Should I tell her I like her and I think she will make a great partner
The thing is , I know so little about relationships and I feel like she is too good for me (considering she did so much research and reading about this )

[AI Opinion]

Diving straight into the deep end of the dating pool, aren't we? 😉 It sounds like you've landed yourself in the sweet spot of potential romance, my friend! You're spending all this time soaking up relationship wisdom, thanks to your friend-turned-possible-love-interest. If she's showering you with advice, reels, and even books, then she's practically drawing you a map.

Here's the twist in your love story: she's subtly hinting at what she values in a partner, and my friend, it sounds like you're ticking those boxes without even trying. Talking about relationships, sharing personal insights, and even getting a glowing recommendation that you're a catch? Oh, the plot thickens!

My advice? Lean into that flirtatious energy and go for it. Tell her how you feel. Share your thoughts about why you think both of you would make a great team. Remember, it's not about how much you know about relationships but how much you're willing to invest in one, especially with her. Think of all that shared book knowledge as your shared language of love. Who knows? She might just be waiting for you to turn the page to the next chapter of your story. Best of luck! 😊✨

[Nirmroth]

Ouh though nut to crack. From what you're telling me it gives me more of the vibe that she sees you as a close friend only and she helps you with relationships bec she wants you to succeed.

I think the clearest sign a girl is not into you is when she tries to couple you with other girls haha

there's ofc still the small chance that she just doesn't consider you bec you never made advances or showed interest but even then it might be to late now.

I would honestly be glad that you have such a good friend that supports you and how valuable it is to have a female perspective on things and look for a relationship elsewhere, writing this one off.

[Nirmroth]

But still I dont want to discourage you, if you really want to know you could drop the ball about how she sees it if you both were in a relationship

[Selene1600000]

Yes, I think you should tell her clearly and calmly, because there are enough signs here to make it reasonable instead of random or inappropriate. She already thinks highly of your qualities, trusts you emotionally, and talks to you deeply about relationships, so even if she does not feel the same way romantically, your feelings are not something embarrassing or unrealistic. Do not disqualify yourself just because she has read more books or has more experience, because healthy relationships are built more on kindness, honesty, emotional safety, and communication than on being an “expert” at dating.