Would you be comfortable sharing your phone with your partner?

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HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. In every relationship I've had, I gave my partner fingerprint access to my phone and they gave me theirs. Funny thing is I wasn't the one who initiated that setup either because asking a girl for that is socially considered "controlling" if it comes from a man. That's why I really appreciated that they initiated it.

Trust is earned. You have to build it up through your actions. Most people nowadays are too shady, but for me it's an absolute red flag if you're not willing to give your partner access to your phone.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

She already takes it and goes through it. Messages from AT&T about phone bills... I give it a sexy name and a sexy girl picture as well as all the other junk mail. I gave my own phone number the same treatment and then I sext myself... what? you thought I stopped trolling when I got off this site?  Dats rite! I've been fucking that famous porn star while you are at work!

naartjie · Accepted Answer

Yes! I have nothing to hide, the only thing I have to hide is embarrassing photos of myself or me tracking my weight lol. Otherwise nah. The man can have his fingerprint in my phone and the code to my phone🤷🏼‍♀️

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

I’m not a creep that hides shit on my phone or anywhere else for that matter so no issue there.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Oh, diving right into the juicy stuff! Sharing your phone with your partner is kind of like letting them read your diary, isn't it? It really depends on the trust level in the relationship. I’m all for openness, but hey, everyone needs their little corner of privacy, even from their lovebug! If you're both cool with it and it comes from a place of trust rather than snooping around, I think it's fine. Love is all about trust, after all. But remember, a little mystery keeps the flame alive 😉. What's your take on it? Ready to hand over your digital diary or keeping those secrets under lock and key?

AviatorTom · Answer

She often borrows my phone to make a call. My contact list has more people in it than hers does... she hates updating her contact list. For example, I have most of our neighbors in my Contacts, she only has the neighbors she likes.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

If they need it, yes. If they just want to snoop, no.

Darkchild25 · Answer

Been there. As I have female friends, all of which I knew before her she got upset about me being in contact with other women, and now we are no longer together.
I had nothing to hide. In fact I was the one that gave my phone to her to read a book in bed. I fell asleep and found she had gone through my phone. It's not just a breach of my privacy it's a breach of my friends too. But she said I was wrong to not have deleted the messages... Wouldn't that feel more like I had something to hide though?

Red_Arrow · Answer

When I first married was before cell phones. We had one land line. So of course we were comfortable with that. Maybe these days cell phones have allowed people to go overboard on what the put on them!

NathanDavis · Answer

yes, and no...

if you mean, am I okay with them seeing what I do, yes...

but then, no... it would be very annoying to respond or check something that it's not for me, and then... there would be the many times in which both would have to use it at the same time, and that's not comfortable and not efficient at all

that's more like a dumb way to use a smartphone, lol

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

absolutely, if your scared or worried about your romantic partner from seeing something on that phone you know you are involved in behaviors that you shouldn't be while in a relationship.

no exceptions,

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Probably not... it mostly wouldn't bother me, but I do interact with some people who would be extremely not down with finding out that their connection line with me wasn't secure.

Paranoia is a fun and exciting thing for everyone whose life it touches.

paledreams · Answer

Yes in my head I often daydream how I'd imagine life with a girlfriend of my choice much like people enjoy daydreaming fan fiction or write their own novels lol "based on a based on" lol 😆😄😛 of joy 📖📚

GeminiDiamond · Answer

Yep! Have fun! When you get horny, I'm right over here.

_SilentWolf_ · Answer

In my opinion, I am comfortable sharing my phone with my partner. Trust and transparency are very important in relationships. However, everyone's privacy must also be respected. The important thing is to maintain mutual trust and respect personal space.

JacobJordan · Answer

Only thing I have to hide is work stuff and that is for legal reasons. My wife knows not to go snooping in those areas of my phone. Other than that I don't care if she uses my phone

sage2021 · Answer

It's not always about hiding something from him. It's what he might do to sabotage my phone and mess it up!!

Nikki1989 · Answer

We already do. They are only phones, and we have nothing to hide from each other. Anyone who says no to this obviously wants to hide something, and that is a HUGE red flag.

Aubrey97 · Answer

Yep, we see each other's phones all the time.

HelpfulWoman · Answer

easily. apart from cringe posts on facebook memories, i have nothing to hide

dustybiker2 · Answer

I belly laugh everyone is curious why. Sure. Happens a lot.

LostSouls_ · Answer

Yep. Shouldn’t be an issue if you have nothing to hide from them 😉

EmmaMary · Answer

Absolutely... Neither my husband or I have anything whatsoever to hide.

genericname85 · Answer

no. my battery life is already not enough for just myself.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Yeah. Why not? We both don't have passcodes and IDC at all.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Ya she’s gotta find out about my Reddit one way or the other

LiamJHayden · Answer

For what reason? She misplaced hers and wants to call it, fine. She wants to go through all my texts, no. I do not want to miss something from a big client because she is insecure.

DreamLife7 · Answer

If you're married there should be a showed cell in case of an emergency and then an individual line  But it sounds like you're just insecure

Lokiion · Answer

No because if the trust is there you wouldn’t need to see someone's phone

Anonymous · Answer

So how many times a day is this stupid question going to be asked? As if the other 9000 times prior to this weren't enough

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes, sure no problem

tryingitagain · Answer

Yes, I have nothing to hide!

Loner111 · Answer

I have nothing to hide, sure.

MatureMan40 · Answer

Yes, of course.

Luopio27 · Answer

Do you share underwear with you partner?

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Yeah I don't care

Joshgag2000 · Answer

Yes I have nothing to hide

Cheerfull009 · Answer

No, my privacy

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Of course. so Easy

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Yes, I would.

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