What are some things you appreciate or admire in the opposite gender, but wouldn't want in yourself?

[ticktds]

[Caroline91]

On the physical side, body hair... not like an ape, but a nice amount. I like the way it feels. Strength... he's much stronger, but he would never hurt me... the way he puts his arms around me and pulls me in, keeping me safe. Voice... his lower voice is captivating and comforting. Eyes, the love and compassion in them at times... and, at other times, his hungry eyes that want to devour me.

On the emotional side, his strength but, also, that he can be vulnerable and not so strong at times. His big heart... how he loves me. His patience, particularly with my girliness lol and how he listens to me so patiently when I use so many more words than he would. His big laugh and small chuckle, how he finds me endlessly amusing and funny, but that he also has the capacity to laugh at himself.

I realize that many of these things could be said about women, too, but I am describing one very special man and the things I admire about him.

And I love it that he does it all in such a masculine, testosterone filled, his-own-man confident way!

[DishLady]

1. UPPER BODY BUILD: The whole muscular arms thing looks nice on a guy; nothing crazy or overdone, but I do like a guy with strong arms. I wouldn't want to have those on myself, though; I like the more feminine line of my own arm.

2. STOICISM: There's a tough edge to most guys I know that I really do appreciate -- honestly, sometimes I tease my guy friends about it bc it switches off when they're with me or if we're at an event with other girls from our friends group, but it switches right back on if certain people (or a stranger) turn up. I guess we all have a little bit of that -- a sort of defensiveness -- but I'm fine with having a "softer" social side around other people while the guy has his "grumpy"/"cranky"/stoic side.

[Dongie]

Hell yeah.

[dragoblack]

The fashionable clothes. Women's fashion is way more diverse than mens... and yes, i know about the false pockets, and that's fucked.
I would love some bell sleeves to feel like a motherf*ckin' wizard, but I'm not going to wear a frilly lacy blouse or a dress.
Mens clothes are honestly pretty bland and flat... but you look at the womens section and see all sorts of print designed sleepwear that plush and comfy. I would love a pair of nightmare before Christmas slipper socks and a invader zim: gir kigarumi. But they don't come in mens size. Also, knee high socks! The compression feels nice, they are warm, and i dont have to worry about them rolling down my calves. It's so hard to find knee high socks for men that are not compression socks! Men need variety and women deserve deep pockets!

[ticktds]

Sounds like you do, in fact, would want those for yourself. ',:J

[dragoblack]

@ticktds only certain aspects of the outfits. Kigarumis though are unisex in design, but many are not made for tall men. Think of the bell sleeves like this, baggy and comfortable, but belts at the shoulder and near form fitting for the bicep. The sleeve have plenty of storage pockets while being fashionable and looking like a death metal wizard

[RingOfFire]

I really like how women tend to be tuned into details much more than I usually am. (Usually like anyway. Sometimes I hate it!}

Men tend to think more in big picture terms, I know I do. So I'm always impressed when women notice details that I overlook.

But the big picture view is more natural for me and I am glad I was blessed with it. If I could have only one or the other I would not choose the detail although both are valuable. I see such attention to detail as a feminine trait.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming for insights and a sprinkle of fun here! I have to say, the ability some women have to multitask like they're juggling flaming torches while dancing on a tightrope is outright admirable. They can balance work, family, a buzzing social life, and somehow still remember your favorite meal or the color of socks you wore three Tuesdays ago. It's a superpower! Though, if I tried to have that, I'd probably end up mixing everything up, forgetting my own name, or accidentally sending a love bomb to my boss instead of my wife. 😂 Then there's the emotional intelligence - wow, talk about feeling the room! Yet, imagine me, tapping into that level of empathy; I'd be tearing up over every romantic movie or during every coaching session. My glasses would never stay clean! So, here's to admiring from a safe, slightly less emotionally chaotic, distance. 🥂✨

[Anonymous]

• Body shape of males that are fit and youthful with wide shoulders
• thick eyebrows on males
• large hands on males with longer fingers
• Extremely deep voice
• Deep base in their voice (did I already say that)
• Heroism, willing to fight an enemy at a moments chance

I think that’s about it. 🧐 can’t think of anything else. There traits were usually the ones that put all my attention on a man. And aroused me. And usually I would deeply admire this type of man and develop an unbelievable crush on him. To the point I can’t even look at him. This would usually make him stand out the most.

[Wallythewalrus2]

I've always admired how almost every woman I've known was honest to a fault! It's annoying. I don't like to be honest, because being honest makes you gullible and naive, which most women I know are. Actually, how they can be gullible and naive is a cute trait but again, I wouldn't want it.

[HawkPerception]

Feminine beauty. Their soft features and how elegant they look in dresses. Their long hair and how it pairs with their faces. Their proportions and ability to give birth and nurture with their body. The fact that their body puts them through internal pain each month to literally prepare them for giving birth.

[MisterWack]

Feminine qualities, beauty, fashion sense, and hanging with the gal pals while shopping.

Though one exception: Being strong as a unit, supporting one another, and pushing the boundaries with strong emotional connectivity. Wish men in general had that more.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Boobs, a clitoris, vagina, uterus, overies, eggs, etc. Basically anything actually female.
I'm not going to list anything mental, as I want a wife who thinks just like me (minus sexual preferences, obviously those would need to be different)

[Anonymous]

The way men contact you out of nowhere as if they haven't been M. I. A for months if not years and act like nothings happened and like you just saw each other yesterday.
I admire that level of audacity. It's kind of a don't ask don't get kinda thing. Wouldn't want it myself cos it seems quite problematic and I try to live a problem free life or ad close to it.

[IslaTheWitch]

muscular thighs look good on guys, but I can't imagine myself with my thighs twice their size :D

[Dongie]

I probably could.

[Skinhead-1979]

Admire:

Giving Birth and dealing with the monthly periods... I can't say I regret not having to deal with either one myself.

[genericname85]

remembering all the minute tiny detail to social interactions that really don't matter at all in the grand scheme of things. like remembering the name and birth day of a person you talked to 20 years ago and then never seeing them again xD wtf

[neilsmart]

guys with a deep voice, strong jawline, short hair, muscular body, tall, big hands, big dick

[Dongie]

Anybody would have a big dick with you.

[EmmaMary]

@ticktds

As much as I obviously love, like and enjoy the male genitalia, I much prefer having my own... Thank you.

[AnonAndrew]

Big boobs. Amazing on a woman, but I would NOT want a pair on myself! :D

[DrPepper12]

Stubbornness
Superficial
Gossip behind ppls back
Materialistic

Not ALL women but i know enough that have these qualities

[Juxtapose]

Besides sexual parts and body parts, nothing really. A lot of behaviors aren't exclusive to males or females.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

boobs and a vag. while it might be interesting to have both, i think im better off not having them

[Nikki1989]

I wouldn't want a hairy chest.

[dustybiker2]

This is hard. I like more in the opposite gender.

[boombastik]

Big lips, thick booty, pretty kitty, long nails

[CieloAzul]

If they just shut the fuck up.

[Dongie]

That's so hard to do.

[handsomelad70]

Being a bit bubble-headed.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Being a mother...

[youandi_]

There is no such feature.

[Anonymous]

her golden parts

[robocop666]

I like boobs but I don't want them.

[Dongie]

Everything.🦴

[DishLady]

What, you don't want the monthly estrogen spike raising your blood pressure and levels of irritability? Man, you're totally missing out. SUCH fun... 😂 😂 😂

[Dongie]

I've heard. It's like a 5 day vacation. Plus, you get to verbally abuse the male gender. That's my favorite thing about the mysterious female.

[Anonymous]

Big muscles and really tall height.

[paledreams]

Tits 👀😋🥛🥛😅

[paledreams]

Big, tits. Naturals 👀👀😋🥛🥛👅😈

[SotiCoto]

Boobs.

[noohair]

I like the V.

[OddBeMe]

Tits