Is snapchat too much of a cheaters paradise? Would you trust your SO to have it?

Question

I love Snapchat! But wow, secret stories, chats deleting after reading, pics and videos viewable only once. Did the creator deliberately create thos app to aid cheaters and other "bad" people using it and covering their tracks! Knowing this, would you be suspicious of your significant other using or having it? Would you find it suspicious if their messages were set to instant delete?

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Umm yes!

ghost app was the first main app as go to for sexting… the instant delete pictures and all. Fast messaging and this and that. Cute flirty filters (original dog filters). And cute- drawing attention to appearance- avatars.

It’s like mating ritual.

display oriented

and it’s like an app for quick hook up or so.

Not intended for that but it became the first app allowing for that so it’s kinda known for it.

This is why it shouldn’t be trusted.

it’s just simply part of the app history! And popularity of it now.

It can always be harmless and used for friends and fun like youthful app with nice aesthetics and it does have the mini games on it. It is very fun and filters were funny and silly, but it shouldn’t be trusted with some people especially if prior to the relationship the partner was a bit of a play boy/girl, or used it primarily for sexual stuff.

If they have say family on there as well and stuff and innocent snap history like with memories and stuff then MAYBE it could be trusted but I wouldn’t.

Every couple should discuss this between and for themselves.

Hope this helps, best to you!

avery58 · Accepted Answer

I honestly don't use it for any sexual purposes. It's just to send random snaps of what I'm doing or where I'm at and normal chats.

If in a relationship my boyfriend asked me to delete Snapchat, I would but only if he deleted Instagram as well. I think Instagram makes it way easier to cheat than Snapchat anyway, but I wouldn't ask him to delete it just because of my insecurities, unless he asked me to delete something first. Even then, I would think he doesn't trust me enough.

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

All social media is cheater’s paradise, even just going to the bar is a cheater’s paradise, or perhaps even a strip club or whatever…

The fact is, if you don’t trust your SO then maybe you shouldn’t be together or try some sort of reassurance compromise that doesn’t sacrifice one or the other’s happiness/fulfillment (in general by the way)

Snapchat is a stupid app, I’ve seen friends & associates use it and they have SOs so… I just don’t see it as cheater Heaven unless they have the temptations to utilize it in that way which take away one cheater’s way of cheating they’ll find another.

TonyV · Accepted Answer

We both have snapchat still. Also if you can't trust someone with that app then you just can't trust them, so have they given you not to trust them or are you being overbearing and jealous over nothing?

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

The aim here is to dive into the ever-enticing world of Snapchat and its reputation as a playground for the not-so-faithful. Ah, the allure of disappearing messages! It's like a magician's best trick for those looking to keep their escapades under wraps. Sure, Snapchat has its perks for sending goofy faces and fleeting moments, but when it comes to trust in a relationship, it's all about transparency. If your significant other is using Snapchat and insists on messages vanishing faster than Houdini, it's enough to raise an eyebrow or two, don't you think?

Trust is the sexiest foundation any relationship can have, but if you're feeling like Sherlock every time they’re snapping, maybe it's time to have a heart-to-heart. Open communication beats playing detective any day. So, if their Snapchat habits make you uncomfortable, bring it up with all the charm and sincerity you possess! Remember, it's not about the app; it's about the actions. Keep those lines of communication as open and enduring as a never-ending Snapchat story.

TheRealPepperPotts · Answer

I kind of view SnapChat as an app for immature teenagers. I've never used it.

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Answer

A cheater is a cheater. Like my grandmother always said doesn’t matter what you do, what fancy safe you have. A thief is always going to find a way to steal. I haven’t used Snapchat really ever. I only got it bc my cousin begged me to at the time bc it was new at the time. However I rarely used it. I only use it to save pictures I haven’t put on my laptop yet or use a filter not on insta. I would be okay if my SO had one there’s other ways and other signs that give away if someone’s a cheater.

Damaged00 · Answer

I don't use Snapchat. I think I had it for like a month because everyone kept telling me to get it but it wasn't for me. I didn't like that it deleted things. But with it's features I can see how it would be useful to cheat. I probably wouldn't date someone who used it. There are many different social media platforms to use to talk/interact with people so why bother unless they needed one that deleted things. Which is a red flag. I think I'm just too old for all that drama.

MemeSupreme · Answer

who cares if they gonna cheat then they gonna cheat. and im a very huge overthinker yet that's how i feel

shortster · Answer

I don't know, but I get a lot of women trying to get me to join their OnlyFans on there. I don't think that they realize that I am perfectly happy with going back to the dating app we matched on and reporting their profile for spam.

StudyingAuthor · Answer

I don't use snapchat. I have friends that have it. Actually both of them do. And both of them asked me if I had it. I told Dessah that I didn't but I know Monti has it she didn't care. And when I told Monti that Dessah had it but I didn't he legit ignored that part and kept wondering if I had it. A bit odd now that I'm typing this.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Yea, because what are you snapping at our grown age? 🤡

The trip you took to the DMV to renew your drivers license? Yourself working to pay your bills? looool

If he has Snapchat while I am in a relationship with him, I probably assume he was up to something.

Binx1976 · Answer

I would not trust them to have it but I certainly wouldn’t stop them. I give my SO every opportunity, and piece of information that they would need to hurt me, because I want to know how they will use it. Trust them with everything and see how well they respond. That’s the only way you will know their true intentions.

luvstoned4him · Answer

Any social media platform is a cheaters paradise. Anyways I only use snap chat for cute pics and nothing else really.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Who's still using Snapchat in 2024 if my husband started using it I'd find it massively suss because no one uses that app anymore unless there hiding something

Account · Answer

We have 2024, people still use Snapchat?💀 @ChicoFromThe305 (BRO, FOR SOME REASON I FELT THE NEED TO BE ANNOYING AND MAKE YOU FULLY CRINGE, Sorry about that 🤣)

TheLovelyIntrovert · Answer

I wouldn't even want to date a man who uses Snapchat. Gives me eww vibes for some reason... but given what I've heard, no I don't think it's a good idea either partner uses the social feature

normalice · Answer

Unless there is some way to search users locally it can't function as a cheating app, one would think.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Any man that has a phone addiction is most likely cheating or at least thinking about it. Snapchat is just one of the tools they use.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I only use Snapchat to fool around and manage hook ups. As to whether any of those girls are cheating on someone else with me, I don’t know. Honestly, that doesn’t really matter to me.

MicahRaine · Answer

I would trust her to have it, but she doesn't.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Never touched it… why rhe heck they need it in first place?

HawkPerception · Answer

Having Snapchat alone is a huge red flag. I wouldn't trust a girl with it personally.

Anonymous · Answer

For me, the bigger concern is it could be used to help aid terrorists plan coordinated attacks without security services ever getting advanced knowledge of it!

genericname85 · Answer

Man if these are the petty things that are "drama" in your relationship, it must be going real fine for you.

Olgaaa22 · Answer

I think so bc I found it very odd when this married guy one time asked me if I had snap chat, I never asked why he needed it but I said no I don’t have it bc I actually didn’t, so I found it strange

Goahead76 · Answer

I tried it for a month but it was so stupid, I felt my IQ going down the few times I even attempted to use it. I eventually deleted it.

getpucksin · Answer

As a hockey player snapchat is big with the boys, and yeah a lot of guys (and puck bunnies) use it to cheat

MoroccanPrincess · Answer

This app & apps like Instagram & Twitter you can't trust. I had ex cheat on me on the Snapchat app and Instagram unfortunately

FarAway12 · Answer

My Ex downloaded snapchat without my knowledge and used it to cheat on me so... no.

jackieistired · Answer

Now I’m going to be EXTRA weary of a guy who says he has Snapchat

RyanR03 · Answer

I mean it’s case by case. I don’t have one and my SO does not. We are both 49. It would probably seem weird if she did though

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Sure I would trust her if I had one. I'm not like other guys we could have a little fun with it together 😈😈😈😈😈

Stef12 · Answer

How? You can't even contact people on there. It's just funny animations.

NYlatefun · Answer

So @crimsyjo why do you use it? Are you in a committed relationship?

noohair · Answer

The created a platform that would draw people in. It is all about money.

ale2003 · Answer

unfortunately yes, it’s an app for hooking up and sexting…

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah, I actually trust my partners.

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't even know how it looks like... lol

DrPepper12 · Answer

IDC if she wants it it's fine.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Never had the app and not interested in it.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

I call it a stalkers paradise actually

andy530 · Answer

I don’t have an issue with it

jahaims · Answer

Snapchat is cesspool

kinkynicci · Answer

I could care less

gangster123 · Answer

Never used it

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