What do you think about someone who cheats when they are drunk?

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I read some questions in this platform.
It seems like cheating/hangout with friends while they are not single and ended up sleep with best friends are becoming popular here. I don’t know if that all troll or real question 😆

What is your opinion, will you drink too much when you hangout with opposite gender while you are not single?
Do you trust enough your friends?

V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Friends, real friends are not encouraging me to drink to the point of making stupid decisions, and they're also not trying to sleep with me or convince me to fuck some roastie I come across. If I had friends like that, I wouldn't fucking trust them and they wouldn't hold friend status very long at all.

Overall, what I think about someone who cheats when they're drunk, is they probably had cheating on the brain before they even took that first drink. I also think they can't handle drinking, and that their partner shouldn't trust them. The fact that they would even trust themselves at that point makes me beg the universe for them to win the Darwin Award.

If you're going to cheat, go cheat or at least be blunt and say you are going to fuck someone else. Don't use alcohol or "friends" as some sort of fucking excuse to do what you're going to do anyway.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It’s a lame excuse that most cheaters use. Alcohol can give someone the fuck it all attitude but they still know what they are doing , they just don’t care

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I get drunk easily and when I drink I do get a little more frisky and horny but I’m still aware of my actions especially if I’m in a relationship. So, I don’t buy people using alcohol as an excuse for cheating. My ex’s friend went in for a kiss one time while we were all drunk but I immediately dodged him even though I was also very drunk so I was still kinda aware of my surroundings nonetheless (before I pass out soon after lol)

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I don't drink very often because I know there is a blackout limit and blacking out almost feels like a dream state. I also think in that state you can lose control since it almost doesn't feel real. I have never gotten super drunk with friends or people other than family because I don't trust them or myself lol. Considering my dad was a huge hoe when he drank I feel like it is in my genes to be a hoe lol.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Diving into your question with a splash of flirt and a sprinkle of wisdom, let's unwrap this. Cheating, whether soaked in alcohol or not, rings the bell of betrayal loud and clear. Ah, the intoxicating blend of spirits and poor decisions! 🍸 Trust me, the whole "I was drunk" line is a cocktail of excuses. Falling into the arms (or bed) of someone else, despite your heart belonging to another, is a choice, not a hiccup of drunkenness. Would I drown in drinks around tempting company while committed? Absolutely not. It's about respecting your partner and the relationship you're in—keeping your heart and actions in line, even when your head's spinning. Your trust in friends is crucial, but even more so is trusting yourself to not blur lines that shouldn't be crossed. The real love potion? Trust, respect, and a dash of self-control. Cheers to that! 🥂

ohsheeT · Answer

. It doesn't matter how much you drink you know right for wrong and if people want to use that for an excuse it's the most stupid excuse ever I was drunk yeah right LOL

OlderAndWiser · Answer

No one forces you to drink, so you are responsible for everything that you do while under the influence.

DishLady · Answer

If you cheat when you’re drunk you WANT to cheat when you’re sober.

Staximus · Answer

I've worked at a few bars and been around a lot more drunk people than most. If somebody's drunk and in love, they will be thinking about the person they love. Trying to call and text them, wanting them there with them, etc. Not blackout drunk, though. Once somebody is blackout drunk, all bets are off.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I've never gotten drunk, but in my opinion, people should be watching how much they drink and be knowing their limit on that stuff. They have to be able to drive themselves back home and be somewhat sobered up. I could understand if maybe someone say, never had a 3rd drink before and decides to have it and that hits it for them. But even then, cheating is still cheating. You'll break your partner's heart & trust in the relationship. And don't hide it from them either, it'll just make things worse for you later on. But like the commercials say: Drink responsibly.

Minky17 · Answer

Sounds irresponsible, childish and doesn't take accountability by blaming alcohol or other people while under the influence. Everyone asks for consent and consent is mutually given for cheating to occur. No one should have to babysit someone because they drank alcohol and can't control their genitals.

Makeushiver · Answer

What Minky17 said below. Maybe 1 time its forgiveable but once they know they they drink too much and then become promiscuous than it's their responsibility to avoid those situations. If they claim it's all because of alcohol you should politely suggest that find recreation other than drinking- maybe one more likely you keep their clothes on. It might be worth having a revenge fuck in your pocket in case you feel lonely some night.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont even like being around people who drink so if they get drunk, I’m already going to be done with them. My ex from earlier this year kept his alcoholism a secret because he knew how i felt about it. And then once i learned about it, anything he did he used alcohol abuse as an excuse. What a loser. So now im paranoid im dating secret drunks

FreyaRed · Answer

Alcohol reduces inhibition. Ergo people who cheat while they are drunk want to cheat but don't have the courage to do it without alcohol. I think as excuse is alcohol a very cheap explanation.

"Do you trust enough your friends?"

Trust or distrust, it's so black and white thinking.,

MrOracle · Answer

I don't drink, and I wouldn't be with a girl who drank when I wasn't with her. Drunk people aren't to be trusted, ever. Not that being drunk is any excuse - you are still responsible for everything you do, but the first thing being drunk affects is your judgement, and the second thing is your inhibitions. That's a bad recipe for a relationship.

RebelinSteel · Answer

I think people will use it as an excuse, they have a few beers, not that drunk, their inhibitions drop and they flirt with someone, as since they got married they have not done this. I’ve seen this a lot with married guy out with friends and same with married women away with friends. Me I’m just a bit crazy n fun when drunk, I trust myself to behave, although I have woken up on a sofa with 2 girls (nothing happened).

rparks · Answer

After many years of experience dealing with being cheated on, I would have to say that you shouldn't be putting yourself in that situation. If you're drinking and you are around other members of the opposite sex, your partner should be there with you. But, I also do not agree with or condone cheating under any circumstance. So no matter what the excuse is, there is no excuse. It would be a deal breaker for me, period.

MicahRaine · Answer

It's a terrible mistake, and definitely cheating. I'd give a little extra grace though, provided that they avoid excessive alcohol intake in the future.

I never have been and never will be close friends with (much less partnered to) anyone who willingly gets drunk.

worldscolide · Answer

Regardless of the circumstances, cheaters are worthless pieces of shit. They are monsters, not human, they exist without empathy, without a soul.

Drunkenness or drug use is not a factor in that opinion. Reason being is a responsible adult will understand that they become more willing to do things they should not while intoxicated, and for that reason it should be avoided if you're prone to do that.

Iron_Man · Answer

They don’t get off the hook they’re done there’s no excuse for cheating. I don’t care if you’re drunk or not you have enough control to say no that’s totally unacceptable in my book and everybody else’s. if you commit a crime while you’re drunk, you don’t get off the hook

Lx0ne · Answer

1.) Sounds like someone who wants to cheat and gets drunk to use the excuse of I was drunk, I couldn't think. When in reality the person knew exactly why they were doing it.
2.) Probably someone who struggles with validation and cheats because only then do they feel desirea le

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

I don't drink alcohol which means i'll never become drunk and let's say if i was drunk, i'll never cheat if i have a wife, ask me why Asian girl? 😄 it's because i'll never go out partying by myself or only with my friends, my wife will be with me 😌

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If I had a lady friend and I was drinking with another lady friend, I would not cheat on my lady that I am dating or married to, and I agree with you some of these questions are from trolls and spammers.

smashleyy · Answer

I was an alcoholic for a few years, had multiple opportunities to cheat on my ex if I wanted and I didn’t. It’s a whack ass excuse to make themselves feel better about the act.

BetaBucks · Answer

I think they wanted to cheat when sober, but feared the consequences so they don't do it. Exceptions for passed out people. That's just SA. Even for guys.

exitseven · Answer

being drunk is not a get out of jail free card as far as I am concerned.

Yannae · Answer

I don't care if the person is drunk, high, sober. Cheating is cheating. I trust my friends yes. I'm usually the one who remains sober so I can get her home safely. I'll take her home and carry her to bed, put her on her side and then I'm out.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I just don't understand how people lose control under the influence, or do stupid shit, no matter how drunk I've never related to such behaviors and I wonder how it happens to others.

DrPepper12 · Answer

15-25 I did that... a lot. It really was just poor decision making due to intoxication.

dazzafromoz · Answer

I hate cheating.

But if they are going to do it then be smart about it and make sure you don't hurt anyone in the process. I have had sex with some married girls but they know I keep a secret and their marriage stays unaffected.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

I think they should be broken up with and learn not to drink.

BCRanger10 · Answer

If you get drunk, you are responsible for whatever happens after.

Nik1hil · Answer

These People are just Ruining the Name of Alcohol.. Alcohol is their escape Goat to do all the stuff they want to!

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is never an excuse unless you are drunk raped by a guy, which happens a lot.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I only drink w wife and family. Anything else is stupidity snd risk. Its a nerve drug!

bobalife · Answer

An excuse… liquor of courage, people do and say what they truly mean.

SoJust · Answer

I will immediately warn the person who cheats while drunk. If he is not in his right mind, he should not play with me. His moves will not be counted.

Wise4myage · Answer

People who do that, wanted to cheat in the first place, they just had to find the right person to save sex with.

805Girlbruhhhh · Answer

If they can’t hold themselves accountable for their own shit and take ownership of that , then they’re cowards and dickheads anyways. Run. Not all “mistakes” are forgivable in my opinion - altered state or not.

Surely · Answer

If she gets that way when drinking. She shouldn’t be drinking in the first place! Wouldn’t be my girlfriend for very long!

TacosRAwesome · Answer

That they should stop drinking or come out as poly.

Alchemizt · Answer

Cheating is cheating whether you're drunk or stoned whatever. It's a lame excuse.

smahala1991 · Answer

Ever heard the saying “Drunken words or actions are sober thoughts”?

Ladsin2 · Answer

Cheating when you're drunk is cheating. You shouldn't be drinking alone with a member of the opposite sex either way...

Zoi1986 · Answer

Cheating is cheating. Weather drunk or not. It’s just an excuse. Even when drunk I’m alter what going on. Been while from when I last drank.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Alcohol is a depressant, not a stimulant, so someone who cheats while drunk would cheat more were they sober.

ryanbas · Answer

Because you are not good for them and they end up cheating on you

LiamJHayden · Answer

Drunk drivers are responsible for their actions. So are drunk cheaters.

elaphe · Answer

i think the same as I do about sober people cheating- it is wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

Alcohol is an excuse. You're giving yourself an opportunity to cheat. You start sober and you know that there's that possibility yet you keep drinking, get drunk and cheat. Cheating is cheating.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't hang out with the opposite gender, MeToo statutes and all that

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Best friends mostly cheat, weather some drinks or not

MasterKS · Answer

Its just an excuse i bet no one drunk that much they dont know they fucked! LOL!

NathanDavis · Answer

maybe they should stop drinking...

spartan55 · Answer

Alcohol doesn't factor in cheating to me.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I don’t approve of it

Fireguy17 · Answer

the same as if they were sober.

Alex_mc · Answer

There are also some that are not fake. 😉

JesseP1nk · Answer

Same as driving a car while drunk

Metalbarbie · Answer

No excuse

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

Inexcusable.

jahaims · Answer

They are trash

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If I had a lady friend and I was drinking with another lady friend, I would not cheat on my lady that I am dating or married to, and I agree with you some of these questions are from trolls and spammers.

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If I had a lady friend and I was drinking with another lady friend, I would not cheat on my lady that I am dating or married to, and I agree with you some of these questions are from trolls and spammers.

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