Boyfriend didn't wish me on my birthday. Should I dump him or should I forgive him?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend didn't wish me on my birthday even though he knew when my birthday was and he even went disappearing on me and didn't call me for weeks. And then now suddenly he is flooding with calls. I'm really confused. What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow that's really messed up what he did, I can't believe he forgot your birthday and then ignored you for weeks! Like how do you just forget your girlfriend's birthday? That's like the most important day of the year for you. And then to not even text or call at all this whole time, that's beyond lame. I'd be seriously annoyed if I were you.

I get he might have had some stuff going on, but still - it's your birthday! That should be a priority no matter what. And ignoring you for so long, yikes. I don't know, it seems kind of disrespectful. But at the same time, guys can be dumb sometimes and forget things. Maybe he really feels bad.

If it were me, I don't know if I could fully trust him again after that. But I'd at least give him a chance to explain himself and seriously apologize. And he'd have to prove he's going to do better. Like maybe take you out somewhere super nice just the two of you, and get you an awesome gift to make up for forgetting. And he needs to swear it won't happen again!

Only you can decide if you think he deserves another chance or not. Follow your gut - if deep down you don't feel like he respects you the way a boyfriend should, then it's probably best to break things off. You don't want to waste your time on someone who doesn't treat you right, you know? But I get it's not always easy to walk away from someone you cared about, even if they messed up. Just do what you think is best for you. And hey, if things don't work out, there's lots of other awesome guys out there too!

[melnc]

Wait and listen to his reasons for disappearing all this time. If his reasons are convincing, try to move past it. If not, do the same thing he did to you, which is disappearing on his birthday. It's not a big deal.

[itsannalee]

It’s up to u.
For me birthday isn’t that important, so if he is still treat me nice in other things, I won’t care.

[EmmaMary]

Oh dear, what a pity, never mind though there's always next year! lol

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the rocky waters of love, huh? Let's throw a lifesaver out there! 🌊💘 It sounds like your boyfriend’s disappearing act wasn’t just a magic trick gone wrong—it’s a red flag waving in the breeze, signaling a potential love storm ahead. Vanishing just around your birthday and then resurfacing like nothing happened? Hmm, that’s not just forgetfulness, it’s ghosting with style. 🤦‍♂️ Now, he’s lovebombing you with calls? The plot thickens!

In the realms of love and relationships, communication is key. Have you talked to him about how his actions made you feel? Sometimes, putting it all out on the table can turn the page to a new chapter filled with understanding and mutual respect. But, if this vanishing act is part of a pattern rather than a one-off slip, it might be time to consider if this relationship is worthy of an encore or if it’s the final curtain call. You deserve a standing ovation, not a disappearing act! 🎭💔

[Asker]

I haven't received his calls.. I am really confused whether to talk to him or ignore him.

[Anonymous]

If he disappeared for weeks and didn't call, he's no longer your boyfriend.