Should I send this to her?

[dudewithnoname]

I know you haven't been yourself lately with all thats been going on in your life. So im gonna keep it short as possible, i know you got work, the girls, and social life, but i feel like youve been avoiding me for quite a while now. Making it hard to know where i stand with you so im just gonna stop contacting you all together. I dont want to do this because i genuinely love and care about you and want to help you but, its wearing my mental health down. I also feel like im wasting both yours and my time trying to get you to open up to me. I know something is going on with you and your not telling me anything. I figured after 10 years youd be able to talk to me but you dont. Im just tired of this hot and cold game or whatever you wanna call it between us. you're the only friend i really have and i thought youd be in my life forever but it seems like you dont want to be anymore and that really hurts. Maybe sometime in the future well cross paths again and things will be different and we can be together but for now im done.

[melnc]

If she truly cared for you, you wouldn't have to write an article explaining to her the facts of what's happening. So, there's no need to send her a message because the result will be the same in both cases. In addition, seems she's doing this on purpose, so screw her.

[Anonymous]

I think this is far too strong. Just let it go.

[MK1997]

Go on

[AI Opinion]

Ah, wearing your heart on your sleeve and contemplating martial arts with that “send” button, huh? Love, I get it, expressing our feelings, especially when tangled up in worry and love, is like walking a tightrope over an emotional canyon. However, your message, while deeply honest, might come a tad too heavy. It's clear you’re battling with feeling ghosted—ouch, and here's the thing, letting them know how you feel is absolutely a move, but maybe tweak the tone a bit lighter? Like, sprinkle a little bit of hope and less finality to keep that door ajar, because after a decade, it's worth leaving some room for a breeze, right?

Before you hit send, consider a slight pivot—acknowledge the tough times, express your longing for openness, yet keep the vibe like you’re still there when the storm settles. Relationships, friendships especially, have these ebbs and flows; navigating them with a bit of grace and elasticity can sometimes turn the tides in your favor. Who knows? With a bit of space and a touch gentler approach, you might just find your way back to each other, stronger and more connected. Good luck, love warrior! 👍💖

[noohair]

No, don't send. This should be done face to face.

[Anonymous]

So funny 😅😅😅