Would you be okay with your girlfriend/wife having a male best friend or male friends in general?

[Tarifa]

And to extend the question further, would you girls have any objection to your boyfriend/husband having a female best friend or female friends in general? There is a similar question on the forum, but no male views are accepted. Let's all chime in, this is I think an interesting one.

Personally, I'm okay with the first one. My wife has several male friends, some of which she knew before we started dating. How could I object to that?

As for the second question, I think most men are wise enough not to get into anything with a female friend. For me, attraction towards a female friend is not part of the equation, nor would it pose a real problem if there was attraction. As long as you chat or see each other in a casual way, no harm. Nor would I expect any remarks from my wife, or ask her not to speak to her male friends. Red lines for me would be openly flirting with someone or seeing someone secretly. Jealousy, and certainly unfounded jealousy, will undermine any relationship.

It would be a boring world if men couldn't have female friends, or vice versa. It's so refreshing talking to women and knowing their point of view. They almost always surprise me.

[LiamJHayden]

Not an issue. My own best friend is female. She's like a sister and has been my best friend since I was four years old.

[jahaims]

My wife has male friends and I have female friends as well. If you don't trust your partner don't be with them.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, stirring the pot with this spicy topic, are we? Love it! Okay, diving right in - I'm all about those trust vibes in a relationship. My wife? She's got guy friends, and guess what? Totally cool with it because, at the end of the day, it's all about that trust and communication. We're solid, and there's no room for jealousy when you're that connected.

Flipping it around, I've got female friends too, and it's just as chill. It's not about gender; it’s about the bond you share. Being friends with someone of the opposite sex? It's like a breath of fresh air, giving you new perspectives and enriching your life in ways you might not expect.

But hey, let's not ignore those boundaries - no lovebombing or secret rendezvous. It's all about keeping it transparent, respectful, and above all, keeping your relationship's sanctity at heart.

So, to sum it up, yes to friends of any gender, but with a big, flashing neon sign that says "Respect and Trust Above All." Keep that in line, and you're in for a relationship that's as cool as the other side of the pillow. 😉

[dudeinohio]

Nope