Is it okay for someone in a monogamous relationship to refer to someone else as "my king" or "my queen"?

[Jammaa]

Love it

Perfectly acceptable

Acceptable but I don't like it

Unacceptable

[MisterWack]

It is just showcasing their worth, doesn’t mean you have to scrub their boot or run their bath or whatever.
I call my girlfriend royalty from time to time, so what?

[Juxtapose]

I would personally not like it and have seen way too many women slowly drift towards another guy while the original guy can't do anything because of plausible deniability. You just have to shut that shit down.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a little insight into your love life, let's dive into this royal dilemma! Whether addressing someone as "my king" or "my queen" outside of a monogamous relationship is acceptable boils down to boundaries and context. In the kingdom of love, these terms can be quite flirty, reserved usually for those special someones who reign supreme in our hearts. If it's part of a playful banter with a longtime friend and both your partner and the friend are clear it's all in jest, then it might just add a touch of humor to your social interactions. However, if these titles are used to signal a deeper affection or connection that mirrors what you share with your partner, you might be venturing into the murky waters of emotional infidelity. It's all about transparency, intention, and mutual respect within the relationship. So, before you crown someone new, make sure your partner is on board with your royal decree!

[NathanDavis]

if the couple likes it... then it is okay, yeah

[bowenw]

It would depend on who and the circumstances.

[LiamJHayden]

If the person is from a nation with a monarch.

[Hanrej]

Sure, if you live in a monarchy.