Do you want a new partner who is super honest and open about everything in their life/past/wants/needs or is it better if they withhold a bit more?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

People shouldn’t be in relationships with people that aren’t honest with them period , I won’t commit to a girl that can’t be honest with me , if she chooses to lie , then that’s something she will have to live with knowing she isn’t honest and something she will face the consequences for if I find out the truth. I will just kick her to the curb where she belongs. The thing is we can’t force someone to love us , all we can do is love someone the same way we hope they love us in return , if their intentions is to bring misery and negativity into my life , they won’t last very long with me period. I don’t really hold someone’s past against them , most of us all have done stupid shit in our lifetimes , so her past is her past to me , if it’s not effecting our relationship together it will not bother me , unless she wants to continue her past with me , then she will eventually become my past as well so without honesty in a relationship that sadly isn’t a relationship that is a convenient, a real relationship is 2 people choosing each other no matter what obstacles they face together , if a girl has my back , I will have hers , if a girl is honest with me , I will be honest with her , if she treats me like a convenience , I will treat her as one as well. If she uses me , I will use her as well , A partner is supposed to bring happiness into your life , not constant misery

[Summeroflove]

It depends on what they’re sharing and how soon. If someone’s just spilling everything on the first date that’s a bit odd on the other extreme if there is something you’re only knowing years into marriage irs cause for concern.

[natured]

If they are 100% transparent, that's just a turn on... I'm living it right now and it feels fantastic, not having to second guess or research about him... it feels good so i'd rather have someone that tells me everything without even being ashamed of it

[paledreams]

As long as it's equally in the other person also to share

[midnightmoon05]

My hubby and I talk about everything. It’s been working well to build trust and better communication between couples.

[AI Opinion]

Aiming to sprinkle a bit of love and wisdom on this intriguing question! 🌟 Ah, the quest for honesty and openness in a relationship, what a journey it is! On one hand, having a partner who's an open book can be refreshing. It builds trust, deepens connection, and let's not forget, minimizes those pesky misunderstandings that love to pop up when you least expect them. But here comes the twist: sometimes, a sprinkle of mystery keeps the flame alive. It's all about balance. Imagine being an explorer in the relationship, always discovering something new, keeping the excitement alive. The key? Communication 😘. Finding that sweet spot where honesty meets intrigue. So, my flirtatious advice? Go for someone who makes you feel like you're both the author and the reader of an enthralling love story 💖.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In my experience, there are many, many benefits to adopt an open up stance reasonably, it does imply some level of intuition, timing as well as understanding with whom to do it. And it doesn't happen unilaterally anyway, it's dynamical, ideally it will generate positive reinforcement for both :)

[paledreams]

She's also gotta be petite, slim, short fit limbs, and shapely figure/Honeydew melon sized tits naturally and smooth downstairs - and a petite woman who's neither tomboy neither girly girl neither nerd neither other - lol 😈😈😈🥳🥳♀️♀️♀️and yes I'm quite open, I'd like her to be humbled and warm and relatable to me - 🛏️😋

[paledreams]

And emojis a must 😈🥳

[Nikki1989]

If they want to spill the beans on their past, they can, but I would NEVER ask about their past. That kind of intrusive questioning is deeply offensive.

[Oncewildtwiceburned]

This one woman was a lab tech and was married nine years, she asked me to get a full std check up (after we had been doing it though), is that intrusive in your opinion?

[Minky17]

I prefer they be honest with me. I don't need anyone lying to me.

[TacosRAwesome]

Id rather they withhold a bit. At this point I assume any partner I have would have some level of experience and I see no reason to get the story behind them.

[paledreams]

Obviously no couple gives away any actual dirt aka "I lost a thousand bucks in a horse once, and then I rinsed and repeated" lol 😆

[LiamJHayden]

I have no need to know the details of her past unless she is a felon, was abused or molested so I can be sensitive to that, or is carrying an incurable STD.

[ItsaMeMaik]

I always prefer the honest ones, even if the truth isn't always nice, but i think to be honest is one of the most important things in a relationship. 😁

[Miristheiss]

If a direct question is asked I want honest answers.

[Anonymous]

I want both of us to be completely transparent. I have nothing to hide. If there are red flags in her past (cheating, promiscuity, abortion, drug abuse, woke or feminist activism, etc.), I definitely want to know about them.

[Nerdvana]

Super honest. Because I am that way. Honesty is a part of great communication. And honesty helps to build trust.

[Babygirl_S]

I don’t want to share too much about myself or know a lot of details of his life

[Ariesman81]

Skip the small talk... tell me the juicy shit from the jump!

[Ladsin2]

I think I'd rather know upfront or not at all.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I’d prefer not to hear about past relationships though.

[Anonymous]

Super honest. Because then the guy will have a better idea whether to dump her or not.

[Anonymous]

Why would I want a girl that withholds her past she could be an ex-convict

[Mado108]

That would be the dream!

[Ms_Facesitter]

Super honest please. Always.

[paledreams]

Honey I dropped a mug this morning, your fave mug - ☕ please don't hit me lol 😆☕

[Ironic_Method]

I usually don't want to know unless I ask.

[worldscolide]

I prefer my wife the way she is, brutally honest.

[Mati91]

When ask don’t lie. It come back at you.

[Mwolf]

💯 x 💯

[jahaims]

Always honesty

[Cheerfull009]

Yes, new