Polygamy. Because there are few real men out there and too many incels/betas will women have to start sharing?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

When I was younger one of my fantasies great fantasies was to have a threesome

Well that fantasy came true and it just wasn't for me my fantasies were way better than reality and that's because every time I started to get into it with one of the girls the other one would pull me off

I do like your question to a point I would like to try the poly life just to experience it not all in the same room but in different homes or whatever

But as for guys
If you learn how to listen when guys are lying to you they will tell you the truth in the same sentence

If you look into their eyes they will tell you the truth with their eyes at the same time their mouth is telling you a lie

If you pay attention how they treat other people you will see how they're going to treat you

When they talk here with their saying but listen to what they're not saying

And instead of looking to the outside of them to see who they are look to the inside to see who they are their heart will tell you everything the same time as their eyes will or the same time their mouth is telling you something different

And then in the start of a relationship and the first time you have sex with that person and let's say that person is just giving you everything you want and that one minute before you're going to orgasm clarity that you have thinking oh my God this guy is great or this girl is great understand that is not love that is two energies becoming one completely different thing than Love but for most people experiencing something great something new something for the first time it's not love..

Even though you love that moment because you never been there before that does not make it love so don't jump into anything this is where so many people make mistakes is that one moment right there

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

"Start" sharing? Women have never stopped sharing men.

We have modern terms like "side chick" and "side piece" or "bitches" - those are all just modern ways to talk about mistresses or harems.

There have always been, and there will always be, women who desire to be with the top 5% or so of men, and who understand (even if they won't admit it out loud) that to be with a man like that, she's got to be willing to share him, because such men, as a rule, have no intention of being monogamous and are usually very up-front about that fact. That's not to say that women won't convince themselves that she'll somehow be able to change his mind later (she won't), but very rarely can she honestly say that he promised her monogamy. And some girls are very up-front about it as well, saying outright that they prefer to be with a top 5% kind of guy, even if she has to share him to do so.

It's hilarious that anyone believes that women aren't already sharing men. It's been happening since the beginning of human history.

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Accepted Answer

Shit men aren’t going anywhere, I agree with that much. The issue isn’t that shit men outnumber good men, it’s that shit men know how to  pretend  to be good men just long enough to fool a woman into staying for the shit stuff and enduring it for longer than she needs to. Polygamy is not about to become the norm, nor do I think that would happen. I’m pretty sure women would choose to live a platonic life with another woman before sharing one man with another woman.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

It would end up like incestuous Islamic caliphates where just rich men have women and all other men have to fight against "infidels" in name of some weird ideology. This would make population dysgenic because men with good DNA but who are poor wouldn't have any chance to give their genes further.
Our yamnaya and corded ware ancestors knew that polygamy is key for success, that's why their progeny conquered the world few thousand years later and not the world us.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Here to spread some juicy insights on love and relationships! 🌶️ Let's dive into the hot topic of polygamy and this notion of "real men" scarcity leading to women sharing partners. Polygamy, historically, isn't about the shortage of "real men" or an overflow of incels and betas; it's more about cultural, social, and sometimes economic factors. In today's love scene, it's all about preferences and consent. Some might be open to the idea under the right circumstances, while others prefer the exclusivity monoamory offers. The heart of it? Communication, understanding, and respect, regardless of how many people are involved. Love doesn't have to be a one-size-fits-all; it's what makes you and your partners truly happy and fulfilled. Remember, it's the quality of connection, not the quantity, that truly enriches the heart. 💖 Let's keep the love diverse and inclusive, without losing sight of individual needs and happiness!

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Avicenna · Answer

That’s a recipe for some serious disorder and dysfunction. Relatively few guys can support multiple wives or girlfriends and their children. So who thinks the men screwed over by such a system will want to support it financially? Or won’t he willing to fight to disrupt it?

Also, beyond the fact that most women don’t want to be one of multiple partners, what about the single moms? These „real men“ aren’t going to want to have women with other guys‘ kids.

AviatorTom · Answer

There's a character on the  Star Trek - Enterprise  series called Dr Phlox, from a planet called Denobula, which has unique mating habits. Each husband has 3 wives and each wife has 3 husbands. Maybe we should try that? 🤔

HighValue · Answer

No. What will happen is there will be a majority of women that end up single forever or have to accept a very low quality man because the majority of women are low quality themselves. There will be a majority of women in the USA single and childless in less than 10 years. The numbers are already high as it is. Plus, for every 10 women, there are only 9 men. That means for every 100million women, there are 90 million men. With the population of the USA, that also means there will be over 30 million women that will never get to have a partner. That isn't even considering if they are too low of quality to attract a mate, so as time progresses, there will definitely be tens of millions of miserable women for their whole lives. They can't get foreign partners like men can because women prioritize someone that can provide financially and is bigger and stronger than them.

Foreign people are often (the majority of the time) far worse off financially so an American woman would have to be willing to provide for the man if she wanted a foreigner, but at the same time, most foreign men expect to still have almost total control in decision making regardless of income. American men don't have that problem because they prioritize physical appearance, a friendly cooperative attitude, and someone that is family oriented, which there are many women around the world that have those qualities. And many foreign women want someone taller than them (majority of American men are) and better off financially (again, the majority of American men are) than them.

American women are pretty much doomed in the near future. Not all, but the majority are just by looking at statistics. And they brought it on themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

I think a large part of the reason that marriage was established as an institution to begin with was to deal with the problem of polygamous tendencies and the massive amount of violence that occurs in polygamous societies. When marriage became the norm the top men weren't able to "hoard" all of the women so a much greater proportion of the male population had sexual access. This gave them "skin in the game" so to speak and reduced violence in society.

Now that marriage is breaking down we DO see more polygamous behavior occurring along with greater violence. And historically this is ALSO happening at a time when many more men are making it well into reproductive age because they aren't being cut down by war to the extent they used to be. It's not a recipe for a stable, peaceful society. From what I can tell, for that you'd want either a more skewed sex ratio (lots more women than men) or greater societal pressure for monogamy. Neither one of those appears to be on offer at the moment.

blueonblack22 · Answer

You know what just go ahead and pursue that if you want to. Also try your best to delude yourself into the vain fantasy that you ultimately be the “the chosen one” for that asshole. Tell yourself you are special (when in reality he sees you as nothing more then a cum rag). Seriously just do it.

Then after he burns you bad (which you literally asked for) make sure to put up another cowardly anon post calling all men scumbags, cheaters, wife beaters, “rapists”, etc. Make sure to cry victim and #metoo it up all you can.

After all women are always “victims” in society anyway. You will always find a shoulder to cry on when things don’t go the way you planned.

But just go for it. Jump head first into that deep dark pit and see what happens.

disappoint3d · Answer

If your update describes what you are looking for in a man than you need to be more realistic with yourself because if you actually believe in this, you are likely an extremely difficult person to deal with, and in reality are on the same level of quality as the "undesirable" men you mention.

The problem with "incels" is a lot of them only want conventionally hot women. Low quality women who only want high quality men are the female equivalent of this, and if these two groups could just get real with themselves and realize where they stand in the dating pool then there is realistically someone for everyone.

Kelley1 · Answer

Polygamy is the preferred and natural state for humans. Even where polygamy is illegal, in effect, polygamy is common since the top 20% of men f**k 80% of the women. That is especially true before marriage and to a lesser extent after marriage because when women are close to ovulation, they cheat with the most attractive available men when the risk of discovery by their husband is low.

Billlewis · Answer

This obvious point has been raised in the past, by more than one prescient individual, most of them female. It's encouraging to see more and more women taking charge of their personal lives and seeking out the pleasure, satisfaction and fulfillment they so clearly deserve.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Multiple women I can understand. More than one man though, yikes, what a nightmare!

Pohjolan · Answer

No they don't  have  to. That said a increasing number of women are doing it. by the way you do realise that beta means middle leaders in a wolf pack?  He is responsible for: - Maintaining pack structure. - Acting as a role model for lower-ranking members. - Assisting the alpha male with some leadership responsibilities. - Leading the pack in the absence of the alpha wolf. I think what you mean is mid tiers or Omegas below them? If we use wolf pack hierarchy to describe humans that is. Any attractive guy that makes good money, is father material, is over 6ft, athletic/muscular, has the right equipment and is good in bed is going to be already taken. What counts as good money in this context?

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I wouldn't want that honestly. I wouldn't want to be in a house with other people's kids, I've already been through that. But if I'm in a poly relationship, then it's going to be me, him, and then our girlfriend-nobody else and no kids. Other than that, I'd say no to poly since I'd want him to be mine. But he'd have to convince me very well to bring in another partner in our relationship.

lightbulb27 · Answer

In certain places they will, or they have to move to someplace to find someone of another culture.

Ukraine has lost a lot of men...

In general, most birth rates are about equal so no.

I'm not opposed to it, but don't know that much about it. To be fair some men are doing this, they are just having one wife at a time while supporting separate houses for the x wives and kids... Elon as example. might as well build a mansion and everyone live under one roof. cheaper...

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

I live with my wife, her best friend, and my mother in law. Everyone gets along great and is happy.

JesseP1nk · Answer

Men hating topic and write it as an anonymous... What a coward. Pfff and you call people incels/betas... Just if you did not get my point. If someone write exact women hating topic... then you would call him incel, right? But not in your case?

Another point - what do you care how people live their life? If that does not effect you then why you care?

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

What am I doing on this thread? ciao

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

It will be coming back, WW3 is coming soon this time all but 30% of men 15-35 alive right now will be alive in 5 years or less after the world war officially starts.

That is if we don’t nuke the planet, who knows what that will look like

Phoenix98 · Answer

Couldn’t do it I’m a one woman kinda guy I wouldn’t want multiple wives.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm up for that. I'm told I'm cute/sexy/good-looking, I'm well over 6', muscular, the right gear and good in bed. Been completely along most of my life!

Twalli · Answer

You willing to share your guy with girls who are hotter and nicer than you? I don't mean both at the same sme time, just a hotter girl and a different nicer girl?

RavVid · Answer

I thought they had already started forming harems.

Anonymous · Answer

Quality men have a hard enough time today finding one woman worthy of marriage, let alone multiple ones.

Anonymous · Answer

I fantasize all the time about having multiple wives.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm not an incel, I just jerk off a lot. is that bad?

Anonymous · Answer

Is this emywolf or whatever the user is lol

LiamJHayden · Answer

A lot already do it unaware.

boggboss · Answer

If thats what your comftble doing yeah

OtterMan68 · Answer

Most women don't want to live in a harem

Anonymous · Answer

WTF have I just read?

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