Those who have cheated and didn’t break up, did you ever cheat again?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend cheated and I exposed him. I only decided to give him another chance because he didn’t physically cheated on me (not yet at least…). He seemed really remorseful and have been working really hard to regain my trust. I know that there’s a saying that cheaters never change and that they only learn to hide things better. I want to give my boyfriend the benefit of the doubt and really give him a chance to prove himself. But I can’t help to wonder if the saying is true and that all cheaters would cheat again…

[Anonymous]

Yes. The first time is the hardest time. Because if you're a decent person at all you feel bad about it. Not that that ever goes away. But over time you rationalize it. And if your partner forgives you, then on some level they understands this is just a part of you.

[Asker]

Yeah and I will give him one more chance to see if he can stay loyal if not then I’m not the girl for him, simple as that

[ChicoFromThe305]

Cheaters gon cheat, it's only a matter of time, you can't expect someone to respect your boundaries if you yourself don't respect them, you folded on your own boundaries when you chose to give him another chance after he cheated on you.

[Asker]

That’s true, if he were to cheat again then the fault’s gonna be on me for giving him another chance

[ChicoFromThe305]

I couldn't agree more

[red-lipstick-girl]

A cheater will cheat again, even if not physically, he cheated mentally.

[Asker]

I’m hoping for the best but still preparing for the worst, we’ll see how it goes…

[AI Opinion]

You're diving into some deep love waters, lovebomb! 😏 Cheaters can change, but it often requires some soul-searching and commitment. His remorse is a good sign, but keep your guard up for any red flags. Trust is like a delicate plant—it takes time and effort to nurture it back to health after being trampled. 🌿💔 So, stay cautious and follow your instincts. If you feel he's genuinely working on it, keep working on it together! 💪❤️

[slatyb]

If he didn't physically cheat, what did he do?

[Asker]

He was texting his ex and went on a lunch date with her. I guess I caught him early

[exitseven]

I cheated once and never again.

[Asker]

Same tbh. I cheated on my ex when I was young and it made me realize what a shitty person I was so I’ve since vowed to never cheat again which is why I’m giving my man another chance…

[jahaims]

Break up

[Asker]

I will if he were to cheat again, I guess I’m just hoping for the best but still preparing for the worst