
Do you think a former stripper or only fans person can be loyal in a relationship with out cheating?


Yes but does their line of work sabotage or hide their ability to do so? most likely, someone wouldn't link loyalty and self control with stripping and selling nudes, it's just not the best first impression.
Yh that is clear enough it's not the first impression at all but you can't judge a book by its cover lol
Exactly, although realistically speaking, sometimes it's hard to not judge a book by its cover cause sometimes it's spot on
Lol that's crazy yh
No, when it comes to those types cheating, its not an if, its a when.
Effectively those jobs are by definition a form of cheating, because they are sexually interactive jobs, and therefor by being ok with doing those jobs, the onlyfans model/stripper is already mentally fine with cheating, and thus cannot be trusted to remain faithful in a relationship.
The fact that a paycheck is involved only furthers the problem, in that it reinforces the idea in her head that the guys she is taking money from are of lower value than she is, otherwise she wouldn't be charging them.
So what you end up with is a woman who is immune to guilt in both commiting infidelity, greed, and in practicing unfair relationship behavior, and thats a perfect recipe for repeat cheating.
Those women are mentally broken.
Absolutely, darling! Loyalty isn't connected to someone's past profession or whether they've been a stripper or have an OnlyFans account. It's about the values, trust, and communication between partners in a relationship. Love is a choice we make every day, and someone working in unconventional fields does not change their ability to commit. After all, a love story is written in the heart, not in a resumé. 😉❤️
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I think they can, but are much less likely to and personally I would never date someone that chose that lifestyle at any point in their life.
Yes , I have dated a few strippers before and they were very loyal to me , most of them just do it for the money
@Finchie40 And an equal amount like doing it because they like showing off their body.
Yea not all strippers are bad, I use to work as a bouncer/ driver for strippers that did bachelor parties , they were just doing it for the money and putting themselves through college because some of them didn’t have family support , they just liked paying their bills and loved going shopping , which girl doesn’t like shopping lol , I met a lot of nice girls’ when I worked that job and yes some were trash not
Going to lie , but not all of them were , so , the ones that had a good head on their shoulders , were the ones I dated and was interested in , They knew they were beautiful and they knew guys’ wanted them , so they just teased and made a shit ton of money , I didn’t make the money they were making , but I still made a nice chunk of change , because the girls’ would tip me out at the end of the night , they knew how to work the guys’ to get money from them it was definitely interesting to watch , at the end of the night the girls’ would thank me for protecting them and keeping them safe , basically only working 4 hours , a night. i would come home with like 6 to 700 bucks , I wasn’t complaining , they each made a few grand each and they were generous with tipping me. I miss that job , I actually never ran into any issues with the customers and I made sure the girls’ were safe. So it was a win win for all of us
Yes, they are all bad.
@Miristheiss, a fair pragmatic assessment--- they are simply exploiting the hypocrisy of the culture they'd been promulgated. SOME savored & cherished their 'affect' and its potential; society's 'rules' they had been born into. SOME coerced into~
You want to know if it's POSSIBLE or if it is MORE LIKELY THAN NOT. Those are two very different questions.
Anything is possible. Both of those are jobs that may not involve cheating. With the right person, loyalty and no cheating can definitely happen.
Depends on the woman. Since onlyfans and stripping usually include fucking guys on camera that paid for it and stripping involves fucking a guy in the champagne room... those ones are whores by every sense and definition we can come up with.
But what if she just played with her pussy all day on camera? Well... is she an attention whore? Like, what kind of relationship are you going to get out of a chick that is obsessed with male sexual attention?
She might be great and you could give her a chance... but be mindful that she may suffer from issues you don't want to deal with. Was she just making money... or... is this her chosen personality because she's off.
Their job is adult entertainment. If it was really about sex, it wouldn’t be difficult to find a new partner so they’re not dating you for just the sex and most of them have been in the position of being accused of being the other woman with a customer they had no attachment to at all. I imagine most adult entertainers know it’s better to just get out of a relationship where you’re not happy than to drag it out and cheat because they continually see the aftermath of it in their work and how devastating it is.
Former Strippers & 'Only Fans ' veterans KNOW their physical selves are but the means to arouse the desire in their CHOSEN 'companions'... since those Companion's appetites are their vulnerabilities.
Is the 'loyality' & fidelity they receive in payment for their allure commensurate with the effort they're investing?
"A well-fed dog DON'T hunt... it stays on YOUR porch."
Word of wisdom right there
Appalachian life experience wisdom... and SOMETIMES even with the BEST conditions, SOME folks can't rise beyond their prior behaviors. TRAGIC heartbreak/choice! ~
Yes, without a doubt. What someone did for a job doesn't make the person. A lot of people end up in it just for the money and doesn't make them a "bad" person and they're still completely capable of being a rational human being who values relationships.
Hmmm ok
Ya that’s what my answer was. That’s their former job. Wouldn’t affect their loyalty to a partner later on
To be honest, I think (especially when it comes to strippers), that's a profession that doesn't really relate to cheating. It's frowned upon, but it's an honest profession. I think people do it to make money - that's it. Work. Nothing feels lonelier than being wanted at work and then coming home to an empty house. I think if you find a partner who's ok with that lifestyle, you surely wouldn't want to cheat on them. You'll be happy to come home to someone who values you for more than your body.
As for only fans, I think that's more nuanced, as literally anyone can have an only fans and use it privately / anonymously (as far as I'm aware). It seems a lot easier to cheat in that regard, if you don't openly share those activities with your partner.
That's my take... but I could be wrong, cause I know little about either hah.
I do not see why not, however a lot of these girls have other issues. Some have daddy issues or are just predisposed to be promiscuous. Some are drug users as well. The fact that they were strippers does not automatically disqualify them.
I knew a stripper a little. She worked out at the same gym I did. She seemed very nice to me. I never knew what she did for a living until somebody at the gym told me. It really did not bother me. All I knew was she was a nice kid that was serious about working out.
Yes. Loyalty is not equivalent to an occupation. An occupation should not be a stigma to be deemed worthy vs unworthy for relationships. Of course we all have our own preferences, what’s okay vs not okay, boundaries, and what we seek though. It is not universal.
Occupation?
Taking your clothes off for money is a moral thing. A character thing?
Someone willing to cross that line is already gone.
Stripping isn’t cheating so you can’t equate both things
That being said
You can’t make a wife out of a hoe, either
It’s not the cheating that will be an issue it’s the impact that the life has on a person mentally
Adult workers often lose their sense of humility and their ability to form a true connection with someone
Life makes them bitter
There are exceptions as with everything, but as a general rule you’re better off getting with someone who’s life you can relate with to some extent
(If you were a male stripper in your day then you’ll have no issue dating one I think)
They already don't have many morals. So what else can go wrong?
Lol that's strong
Exactly. Only a cuck would be with a girl like that.
I have known a few people who have worked as pole dancers, strippers and escorts. For most of them its a better paying job than they would otherwise have and often have stable relationships in spite of their profession
Obviously. Many of them are just successful businesswomen with loving families, just like anyone else. I know as I have met and known many.
I have no real family so loyalty is everything!
Try being poor.
If you know how to talk to men I mean really talk and get them to fall in love (be careful that goes both ways) I easily had 20-40 paying $20 for $400-800 for less than one hour.
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My concern would not be her loyalty in first intent, my concern would be how on earth could she trust any man to begin with. This line of work has to put her under the constant impression that all men are puppets, when a certain toy is being shaken in front of their eyes... So, good luck forming a relationship with that distrust basis.
In fact, you would probably have a hard time convince her that you will not cheat, if that is even possible lol
Yep, since this issue is already crippling relations outside the sex industry, then it's safe to say it will be even more complicated from inside the industry
Yes, I think majority of sex worker don't even have long relationship because of that often. My mother told me that plenty of her coworker go see prostitue and they're married so that's literally crazy. I can't imagine how much dark stuff the worker have saw in their line of work. it give me chills.
In this industry, as a whole, I think they have, potentially, access to any darkness possible from human nature.
From what we know, some people are caught in a vicious circle, and psychology is very far from being a universally considered or cared for topic, so there's that, unfortunately
Past strippers can , I can guarantee that , have seen first hand on numerous occasions , they just get sexed out predominantly..
Is the Only fans example here has she stopped OF? If she has quit , its okey , if she is still going , she is just a dirty slut and not remotely worth the effort , never trust on ongoing OFs bitch...
Sure. They are doing a job much like anyone else and when they want a long term relationship they will choose to be loyal. Why do you ask?
Just curious
Having dated more than one stripper in my life, I'd say the answer is no... at least not while they are still strippers.
We were in our late teens and 20s then though. Is it possible later in life they might change? Yes, I think so. People mature, and their priorities can change.
So stripper... no... would not trust.
FORMER stripper... it's possible.
Those people are a lot more loyal than fuckboy and fan of ONS for the reasons they do this for money and not because they enjoy it unlike fuckboy...
Former or current... doesn't make a difference coz YES they can be loyal... as loyal as any other person
I don't ''think'' anything.
Such a person would be off limits in my own life - and as I got nothing to do with her, it will not even be an issue to myself.
So it doesn't matter
Obviously they're doing it for the money and enjoy doesn't mean they are a cheater forever
@Emmytexrex as a current sexworker , stripper, I am also married and have 4 beautiful kids.
Stripper is just a job I do for living, it doesn’t describe my personality
I would say they are even less likely to cheat cause they are tired of dealing with sexuality all day. Problem is, it hurts your pride to have such partner.
Yes. They do that stuff for money. Doesn’t mean they’re not loyal.
Of course they can be. Cheating is a choice.
How likely that is is however another question.
Their profession and their personal life are two separate things so yes.
professions, jobs... work has never guaranteed loyalty...
I think a former stripper on "Only Fans person" can be in a faithful relationship. I wouldn't judge a person based on that information alone.
Who cares? What pathetic loser man would try to have a relationship with someone who sells sherself sexually to all men, stranger men?
Have some freaking standards.
they probably can but i won't pick them either way. i don't want my future children to be able to find porn of her mother on the internet. that's just messed up.
Yh pretty messed up
sure, what you do or used to do doesn't seem to make a difference.
My ex-wife worked in a bank, and she cheated, I had an ex-girlfriend that was a phlebotomist, and she was cheating on me.
Sex workers are loyal to money. Who ever regularly gives them the most money is who they linger around.
Probably much easier for an OF girl than a stripper as there isn't any physical contact involved. In fact, some ARE loyal in relationships and just film their sex lives.
Wettmelons is a great example. Also--DAYUM!
Seems like yes for both. I don't see why they might not being that they got with you in the first place, however it might be harder to argue with the stripper when the relationship is about to end compared to the onlyfans.
Yes. Why not? Nether occupation implies infidelity!
In fact I would argue she's likely more loyal from seeing the disgusting behavior of married men.
Probably, but I would avoid them anyway because of their lack of good judgement.
I don't think so. I believe they were strictly trained to not fall in love or are unable to fall in love. That's the price they pay in exchange.
Of course they can be. I just wouldn't bet my livelihood on it. I prefer making safer bets.
Wouldn't trust them as far as I can throw a cat. So, that's not at all.
Of course they can be loyal they are humans after all and not robots. Humans are very loving and loyal creatures especially to people they consider part of their lives
Yes, just because she was a stripper doesn’t mean she was a prostitute. I know a girl that used onlyfans to help pay for college.
Unless they as a person have genuinely changed then no.
Hell no. Of course not. re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
I'd date that stripper
I think so and anyone can be loyal
Also anyone can be disloyal
Already emotionally cucking yourself if you watch her do OF. Good money or not.
Yeah. Why, you got one? Why don’t you ask her?
Lol I don't and is curiousity
They’re not all nymphos, some are just more efficient at monetizing their assets
Nope. These women make a living by manipulating men for money. Old habits don't die easily.
Of course no. All think she's a slut, they'll behave with her as a slut. She'll end up being the slut she wants not to be.
Why did you say be loyal without cheating? You should’ve ended the question at relationship.
Haha, haha, haha
NO
Blue account i am guessing lol
loyal? yeah. stable? highly doubt it
Yes, it's a job, just like anything else.
Yes. I don’t see why not.
You said former so yeah
Absolutely yes
@kinkynicci I think so...
No...
No, I guarantee you, they won't be
Yes and no
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