Tough situation?

[Anonymous]

I've been noticing some mixed signals from my close friend's sister, and it's been a bit confusing. We have this comfortable dynamic where we're often in close proximity, play-fighting, and she sometimes sleeps around me. Some days, we share a strong connection with meaningful eye contact and playful banter, but on other days, she seems cold, distant, and avoids me entirely. I'm starting to wonder if I'm doing something wrong, or if there's something else at play here. What's going on here and please feel free to ask questions about the situation

[SueShe]

YOU are the one that would want something here and not her. She realizes that scheme of yours and when it gets too obvious, then it is when she distances herself from you. It's like an unspoken sign that you should refrain from believing that there could be potentially something going on.

I mean, you are in the age group 25-29 and that is not really the behavior of a person of your age.

If you want something from her, then you speak with her about you wanting to get into her pants but don't play that kind of games with her. That is a little childish in my opinion.

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice, I do not fully understand what the childish and “playing games” aspect is in this case, could you also elaborate on the scheming part. Maybe I worded my question poorly or something. Obviously based on the comments I am oblivious to these signs and am a terrible person for doing what I am doing. Please help me learn, once again thank you for the advice.

[SueShe]

What is it that you want from this woman and are you expecting something to happen?

If you do, and that is what I think you would, then talk to her and then all mixed signals are resolved. Either she wants also something from you or she does not. In that case, your best option is simply to move on.

[Abbycado]

“Men” and I use that term loosely, don’t act like this.

[Asker]

Please elaborate

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle some love advice! Sounds like you're caught in the whirlwind of unpredictable signals—a classic ride of emotional rollercoasters! 🎢 Her behavior's giving you a dose of hot and cold, like an espresso shot between sips of iced coffee. It might be feelings being unsure, or she's testing waters like an emotional lifeguard. If you're interested, keep the playfulness and check for any red flags. You could also try for a bit of direct communication, it’s sometimes a cure for all those wobbly vibes. Good luck, and may your connections be ever-playful and intriguing! 😊

[Summeroflove]

Well I think you just need to talk to her and see where you stand with one another. Things happen because some people aren’t even sure what they want themselves and aren’t meaning to be that way.

Some people just have mixed feelings. On one hand they are nervous. Scared that things could become awkward or be rejected… So they act more cold While other days they just really enjoy your company. Plus some people just have off days. As long as she isn’t a bitch to you

[In_Trance]

You lied about your age

[Asker]

Thank you for the advice