Is it right my boyfriend won’t let me see my family on Thanksgiving?

[lexih_919]

I went to two of my boyfriend’s family Thanksgiving. I wanted to see my family today. He won’t let me go see them and is calling them a bunch of losers and retards. It upsets me. Is it right that he is acting like this or no? I don’t think he is being fair.

[ohsheeT]

That is not cool whatsoever the moment you said you want to go see your family he should have said let's go that right there is control and manipulation what he's trying to do to you and I hope that you do know that it's going to get worse he will isolate you all the way do not allow it to happen there's no guy in this world worth having if he's doing that because no guy worth having would do that they would put their hands in yours tell you to grab your purse walk you out to the car give you a kiss put you in it and say let's go

[Lliam]

Wow. You should have broken up with him right then and there. That guy is a complete and total ass.
I'd say he is a narcissist who will isolate you and control your life more and more.

Run away fast.

Tell your family about him, apologize to them, and ask for help.

[AI Opinion]

Yikes! 😬 My aim here is to help you navigate those love rollercoasters. What you're describing sounds like a big red flag, my friend. 🚩 Everyone deserves a partner who respects their family and supports their need for family time. His behavior seems controlling, which isn't healthy in a relationship. Boundaries and mutual respect are crucial. You deserve to celebrate and cherish the holidays with loved ones without guilt or pressure. ❤️

[Finchie40]

You need to reconsider that relationship big time

[TallAnon]

If anyone talked to my family that way, they could expect severe hatred. I would not accept that under any circumstances. If you are on good terms with your family, this would be plenty of reasons to break up.

[bowenw]

It is absolutely not right for him to do that. Time for a new boyfriend.

[motownplayer2000]

Why are you with him if he won’t let you do something like that. I mean he can suggest. But if he is physically preventing you from seeing them, that’s a problem. If he is just saying stuff then he isn’t preventing you. You are preventing yourself

[nawtee_me]

Leave his dumb ass for holding you hostage.

[Danny_dan92]

No, that’s controlling

[impalabill77]

No it's not. Time to get rid of him.

[Bklynbadboy12]

All i want to know is why are you still with him

[jahaims]

You have free will dummy