Would you be mad if your partner spoke about sexual topics with her/his close friends?

[LiliTyaka]

Its something i question myself a lot with if its fine or not what my partner think about it, or if its fine and what other people are thinking about it if i ask them.

Like i do it pretty much just with my closest friends where i know that they have no thoughts behind it

[Crazyced]

There's different levels to sex talks. Saying we like to do it in the shower or we use YWZ type of lube is one thing. But there's this perpetuated idea that as a guy, if you sleep with a woman, a detailed description of your junk along with your performance will be in the group chat within 1 business day. But I don't think most women would appreciate having their most vulnerable state being described so vividly to a bunch of men, especially those she could come across some day.

'Ah her nipples are crosseyed and her tits disappear to the sides when she's laying on her back'

[Rosexøxø]

And I’m sure a portion of the vivid aspect of it is unpleasant but a portion of it is pleasing. All I saw that you described would be considered unpleasant. Unless you of course found it pleasant. I don’t know who would find side boobs pleasant and if it’s complaining from one guy to a bunch of others, I suppose he should look into doing guys more often with sideways cocks instead of being ungrateful about women bodily parts and so “passionately” (and unnecessarily) descriptive about it.

[Crazyced]

@Rosexøxø I have enough life experience to know girl group chats are not limited to roses and butterflies. I've been told by women friends dumping their husband in part because their dick is too small. Imagine what they actually share to each other.

*grumble grumble, something about they should be sticking to girls (?)*

[ArrowheadSW]

When I was still say, in my twenties, it did annoy me if I found out that a girlfriend was talking about our sex life with her friends. Then later on, I just figured that is what women talk about with friends sometimes.

But if it is just that they talk about sexual topics in general with close friends, I really never had an issue with it.

[LiliTyaka]

What i do is talking about general things not the details of my sex life since nobody needs to know that :3

Thank you so much for you opinion :)

[Anonymous]

This feels like a direct copy from my question posted a few days ago

[Opinion Owner]

In abstract form, what’s sex to you? ↗

[LiliTyaka]

aww nah it wasn't it was something in my head cause i had the topic before some days with my partner :)

[Opinion Owner]

If you say so lol 🌝🌚

[Nikki1989]

Not at all. We both do it occasionally.

[LiliTyaka]

aww thank you for your opinion :) my boyfriend and me does it the same way we both dont have a problem with it

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the intriguing world of relationships! As a relationship coach with a dash of flirtation on the side, I'll spill the beans. Talking about sexual topics with close friends can be like a double-shot espresso: stimulating and eye-opening. It's normal and can help us understand our feelings better. However, it's important to know your partner's comfort level and establish boundaries. If there's trust and no red flags, a little chatter isn't bad. Keep open communication with your partner and ensure both of you feel respected. Happy chatting! 😉

[thinkLancer]

I think everyone I've courted has discussed our sex life with their friends I think its totally normal. Its one way to get and share information with peers to learn more about sex, esp when one is a young adult.. Later in life its more about bragging or re-living your exploits. I have always only spoken about my partners respectfully and lovingly to friends/ acquaintances in part because I always want to paint whomever I'm with in the most positive light possible, and also, I've never had a negative experience sexually. Women are really amazing and I generally focus on their pleasure first, or prioritize their pleasure.

[AnonAndrew]

I think it depends on what it is. If it's something neutral, or even positive (like about how he is good in bed or something), that you talk to them about, then most men probably wouldn't mind.

But if it's something more negative (regardless of intent), then he might get very upset about it.

[Phoenix98]

If your talking about just sexual topics in general then I wouldn't care.

But when it comes to our sex life specifically then no I wouldn't appreciate that as that is no ones business but our own.

[LiliTyaka]

Yes can understand that its mostly just general talk as an example :)

Thank you so much for your opinion

[Phoenix98]

No problem.

[HungTexan]

I think it’s ok with close friends. I know my wife talks with her good friends about sex, and have occasionally talk with a couple of my best friends very discreetly.

[LiliTyaka]

awww i think the same way if all know which place they have its nothing bad and can help tbh :)

[Anonymous]

Depends , if he’s talking to female friends , I’d have a problem , but talking to male friends about stuff like that is normal for men, I guess as long as he doesn’t bring me up I don’t really care that much.

[LiliTyaka]

Thank you so much for your opinion can i ask why you have a problem with if he speaks about that with female friends? :o im just curious and why i ask this is since i speak about these kinda topics with female and male friends and my partner can do the same if he wants to :)

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t want my man talking to other women about sex.

[molonski2]

Completely personal matter , not for any outside discussion.

[LiliTyaka]

interesting view, for me i always think that sexuality is a pretty open thing besides sharing details out of the relationship but even there if both decide its fine to speak about it with others so why not

[molonski2]

NO... never , ever , ever , ever to outside people , thats an utter disgrace , private matter.
You want HIM.. Telling others how he fcked you and licked you out? Thats utter shame..

Its personnal , not for general discussion with others.

[keegen]

I wouldn't care at all just as long as it's with the same gender. I don't want my girlfriend to be talking to her guy friends about her sex life and the same goes for me

[LiliTyaka]

Hey there thank you for your opinion can i ask why you would care if its the different gender? im just curious

[keegen]

a little bit, it would just make me super unconfutable but i wouldn't force them to stop talking about it i would let them know how i feel about them talking about there sex life to the opposite gender. i wouldn't talk to women about my sex life when I'm in a relationship to me that's just a little weird.

[bowenw]

No but I would hope they aren’t sharing too many intimate details.

[LiliTyaka]

i can understand you in this regard but i can only speak there for me since i dont know what others do but i would never share any intimate details

[bowenw]

I’m the same and never discuss that kind of thing with friends.

[NathanDavis]

it really depends on the context and what kind of details... but in general, it doesn't bother me

[princeofromance]

No, but I would wonder why they feel that they cannot discuss these sorts of topics with me.

[LiliTyaka]

hey thank you for your opinion. Mmm for me as an example i talk with my boyfriend about these things aswell, but often with my friends aswell to get new viewpoints or different angles to view on something :)

[slatyb]

If I did, my partner would never hear of it. My friends are discreet.

[TacosRAwesome]

If it's in relation to their experience with me, yes I mind. If it's as a general topic, I don't care.

[exitseven]

Yes, I would never do that and I would expect the same.

[jjj101010]

I guess it depends on what kind of conversation it was

[LiliTyaka]

Hey thank you for your opinion :)

Can understand that it depends on the conv for some people :)

[jjj101010]

If u want to drop me a message or follow I would be happy to explain more

[NicholasRedone]

Nah, only people from strict religions would have views. Im a modern man

[Iron_Man]

Like the girl talking to a guy absolutely not

[JerseyGirl2006]

No that people do with their friends. Even if it BS.

[Jennz6]

No, not if it’s not about me

[LiliTyaka]

can understand that would be pretty personal then :o

[Jennz6]

@LiliTyaka
Yes

[WhitneySnow]

That makes sense

[Bonnaroo]

lol I don’t know it would be awkward I guess lol

[Anonymous]

No, it's not an issue for me.

[eagle1951]

yeah