If he hasn't contacted me by the 8th week I will text him this? is it a good idea?

[Anonymous]

this guy I really like and I have been sleeping together for the past 5 months, and he hasn't contacted me in 7 weeks, even though he said he was sick last week and we will do it soon. so if he hasn't contact me by the 8th week or if he texts me after 8 weeks I will text him this...

knowing him he would text something like- hey babe, what are you doing tonight? do you want to come to mine :) x"

me- Your kidding right?... I tell you I have feelings for you and then you don’t contact me in 2 months, and then you expect me to come and have sex with you? How naive do you actually think I am? And you where right I do deserve better, so you can find a new girl to bang ;) x

we are both 16

if I texted you this what would you think? what would be going through your mind?

[Anonymous]

What a tool. Can I tell you something, that type of guy never changes. He only has one thing on his mind and so whatever you say regarding feelings he will ignore. Or pretend to care only to get you back and then end up disappointing you even more. The best thing to do is just ignore him at all costs. If he texts, ignore it. If you feel like texting him back think of it this way, why should you text him back instantly when he went 8 weeks without texting you. I had a guy like this we hung out for 3 years, I really liked him at the end and he told me he was in love with me of course I didn't believe him even though I wanted to. Proved that he didn't and I haven't talked to him in 4 months and don't plan to! You can do it girl!

[Asker]

thanks ha ha I actually just started to cry when I read this :) I deleted his number, and I'll ignore his texts. thank you :)

[Opinion Owner]

you're welcome, and you should be proud of yourself for deleting his number! Definitely keep us updated if he contacts you :)

[Asker]

i will :)

[arashmenalagha]

you can do it gurrrrrrll you can do it guurrrrl you strong like a dog! awwww yeah!

[gReekpRincess]

If he hasn't contacted you after that long, then he doesn't want u.. I'm sorry to say, but after 8 weeks it's pretty clear..

[Asker]

once he took 6 weeks and asked me to come over.. he just takes long periods of time to contact me. but he will cause he allways does

[gReekpRincess]

That's straight up booty call.. No guy that likes you ever waits that long to make contact..

[mystic_fox]

Wow, 7 weeks?! Ignore him. What a tool.