Well it just genuinely depends on the relationship because some are more superficial then others. Number one is that not all women are sweet and innocent that’s for sure in fact some are a lot more wild then the average man would ever imagine. Number two is that narcissists are very one sided. They will expect you to do everything, pull out all the stops, but will give you little to nothing in return (without strings attached) it’s best to just dump those people and move on. The third thing is to just learn every woman is vasty different there are some people who claim they speak for all women but they don’t. Especially because these women also say different things. Just like all men are different looking for different things doesn’t make either person bad but it’s best for both people to find someone they would be more happy with. The last thing is simply don’t chase after women who don’t seem interested or reject you as well as never give a direct answer. Someone who genuinely is into you will show you effort and vice versa. It’s not worth wasting your time on someone you’re never going to get anyways it makes no sense why dudes try to win someone over who just isn’t into him. Why not find someone who genuinely likes you?

I grew up with a mother, a grandma and two sisters, and I came in late to the game, so I guess there wasn't much I hadn't realized when I entered a relationship..

I was thought that they don't care about men's past, but they do

Don't think there was anything that ever surprised me much.

I was never in a relationship, but you already know that.

Guys, What's something you didn't realize women care about in relationships until you were in one?

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Well it just genuinely depends on the relationship because some are more superficial then others. Number one is that not all women are sweet and innocent that’s for sure in fact some are a lot more wild then the average man would ever imagine.

Number two is that narcissists are very one sided. They will expect you to do everything, pull out all the stops, but will give you little to nothing in return (without strings attached) it’s best to just dump those people and move on.

The third thing is to just learn every woman is vasty different there are some people who claim they speak for all women but they don’t. Especially because these women also say different things. Just like all men are different looking for different things doesn’t make either person bad but it’s best for both people to find someone they would be more happy with.

The last thing is simply don’t chase after women who don’t seem interested or reject you as well as never give a direct answer. Someone who genuinely is into you will show you effort and vice versa. It’s not worth wasting your time on someone you’re never going to get anyways it makes no sense why dudes try to win someone over who just isn’t into him. Why not find someone who genuinely likes you?

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I grew up with a mother, a grandma and two sisters, and I came in late to the game, so I guess there wasn't much I hadn't realized when I entered a relationship..

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I was thought that they don't care about men's past, but they do

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  Definitely
  
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Don't think there was anything that ever surprised me much.

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I was never in a relationship, but you already know that.

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Money. Status. Things.

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  Things?
  
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  Materialistic things. Cars, money, jewelry, etc.
  
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  Ah ok
  
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  There is no such thing as unconditional love other than that maybe between a parent and their children.
  
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cheesecake...

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