Do you agree, all relationships are onesided?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

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I think I didn't ask the question well, what I meant was that one person loves the other person moreand is inclined to stay rather than leave compared to the other personMaybe that's a negative perspective🙂

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What do you propose to measure the inclination to leave the relation of "the one who would be prepared to leave the other" ? Should we trust their opinion about themselves at the precise moment they are questioned, should we automatically consider that they know themselves what they want? Should we consider that they will act based on what they think they want?

There seems to be a lot of unanswered questions embedded in your original question...

[Asker]

You should🙂

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I can't. Look at those unstable grounds, much too dicey to get anything trustworthy lol

[AviatorTom]

Relationships are rarely exactly 50-50, but a good relationship, one that lasts, is not one-sided.

A one-sided relationship is NOT a relationship.

[Asker]

Okay maybe I worded badly

The balance of power tends towards one person

[AviatorTom]

In a good relationship, power is shared, typically based on each persons skills. For example, my wife is excellent at handling our travel plans, while I keep track of our money, pay bills etc.

[Asker]

I don't think I made my point at all

When I say power, I don't mean having power or being in charge of stuff, or even earning money, I mean who would me prepared to leave the other. And who would not.
In other words the power of making or breaking the relationship.

Gosh so confusing!

[DishLady]

If an association is one-sided it's not a friendship or relationship at all.

[Asker]

Can't be equal

[Sluttt]

Most of the tims yes.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I’ve gotta say, all relationships have moments that may feel one-sided, but they're definitely not always that way! Being understanding and communicating is key to maintaining a balance. Love is like a dance, and sometimes one partner takes the lead while the other follows, but ideally, you take turns in doing both. 💃🕺 Balance is essential, so a little open-heartedness can help switch up roles when needed. It's all about teamwork, not a tug-of-war! ❤️

[aceleon]

İt is unavoidable because NOTHİNG in this universe is equal, the amount of love people have for each other can never be the same.

[AnonAndrew]

Nah, I don't.

I think you're right that it's very common, though. Maybe it's like 80-20 or 90-10 or something.

[LiamJHayden]

I think of necessity no relationship can be exactly 50%-50%, but if we mean massively one-way, not all.

[Asker]

Exactly not massively one way
But if it's say 53/47
Do you know where you stand on your relationship?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Nah bro, we understood the question, and the answer is no.

[Asker]

I still think it can't be equal
It can change over time
Flip flop
Just think it can't be equal

[Anonymous]

No, you need at least two people for a relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Nope.

[serious]

False. Disagree

[MrChinaski]

That has not been my experience.

[blackeagle007]

2 sides to each story they say

[Abbycado]

Nope.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

No...