Yeah I see life it that way even though I never really wanted to believe it. On the flip sid eit's why I don't date as much. I would want something long term but people's lives grow in different directions, the woman who I'm dating's feeling could change and she'd lesve to find someone or or leave me for someone else. If I ever got to marriage and she wanted a divorce there's not much I could do about that.
So yeah I do believe relationships are temporary but that's life. Having a temporary relationship though isn't necessarily pointless. We give value to stuff in our lives. Nothing is truly pointless or a waste of time unless we give it that value.
So as much as I'd like to find a great woman to spend the rest of my life with. I have no motivation to. I have much greater value in other areas of my life. So I'm happy with the way things are. Not to say I wouldn't try dating if someone cool came along.
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Love and committing to your partner is a constant decision, especially during the difficult times (provided that both parties equally see effort to meet the other halfway.) Commitment comes from the heart, if one leaves each time when "the feeling is not there anymore", likely all the relationships will end up temporary.
I feel like if someone views relationships as only temporary then there isn’t much point in getting in a relationship.
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No. I think people know when the person they are with is someone they want to be with forever or not and they also know (eventually) how the other person feels about it.
When both people feel it can be forever it might be.Not all but you have to remember that everyone has a clock, we all will die someday. Even if your partner is with you for most of your life, you never know when you or they will pass.
To a large degree, everything has its time. it is hard to afford over time and grow together rather than drift apart. it can happen but it take hard work and a good deal of fortune
Your friend is right.
Life is temporary.
I think so
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