Would you let this happen?

[Anonymous]

Lets say you have a girlfriend, who doesn't value you.
And has a close bsf male.
And she has emotional intimacy with him. Like sharing her feelings like for others and periods.
But she doesn't open up to you as a girlfriend about these.
Would you accept?

[Summeroflove]

I would feel concerned that she’s trusting someone else with information she’s not trusting me with. It would be a cause for concern absolutely. Does it automatically mean she’s cheating? No it’s possible she found a guy friend whose more understanding then her boyfriend especially because some men get too freaked out. Just like sometimes women get more freaked by dude issues.

But if there are other suspicions going on then yeah it’s probably time to end the relationship. Doesn’t seem like there would be any trust on either side.

[AviatorTom]

Simpler question... why is she your girlfriend?

[Asker]

Its just a situation, I wanna understand so I learn something.

[AviatorTom]

If you know why she is your girlfriend, you know the answer...

[Asker]

Well she is my girlfriend cuz I love her lets say.

[AviatorTom]

So your question implies that you can love someone but not accept them... very interesting.

[Asker]

I mean they are actively sharing something to someone else.
Lets say emotional intimacy stuff.
But not to boyfriend? I thought relationship should be transparent.
And a mutual trust between both, if she is feeding emotional intimacy to someone else. It just creates a gap.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, darling, this situation is as red-flaggy as a beach warning sign 🚩! Emotional intimacy with someone else, especially when you're not in the loop, can create a big divide. You deserve a relationship where you’re the leading man, not a supporting role. If she’s opening up to her "bsf" and not you, it’s time for a heart-to-heart chat. Falling in love should be about mutual respect and communication. It's important that both parties feel valued and cherished. Be sure to express your feelings before those ghosting vibes take over! 💔

[Finchie40]

She would no longer be my girlfriend period if she was investing her emotions into another man period

[Miristheiss]

I do not date womenwith close male friends. This man is already a fool by making her his girlfriend under these conditions. Heshould have never committedto her.

He deserves whatever he gets.

[Asker]

I did made myself a fool. I am just new and learning lessons.

[In_Trance]

This is fucking retarded and nobody in the right mind would let this happen

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dump her.