I am pregnant by a married man. I told him I am pregnant. He wants me to have an abortion. What should I do?

[Lolita90]

He wants an abortion but I don't want one. Will she support me with the care when I have the baby or will I be left alone?

[Finchie40]

Don’t have an abortion and go after his ass for child support if you want to keep the baby , if you don’t want to raise the baby then put the baby up for adoption.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Most likely he will want to have nothing to really do with it since he already has a family (though for how much longer is up to his spouse when they find out). You can still go after him financially, but you can't make him help with care or being with you.

[Apple1996]

Keep the baby if you want but be prepared to do it on your own. Ofc you can go after him for child support but that could take a long time to get figured out

[Stevepro68]

If this is the US?
current politics have given new leverage to some male dominance. However if you have the baby you can petition the court to force a paternity test and force him to support you baby.

[Lolita90]

Türkiye

[Stevepro68]

According to Google which may be wrong you have the right to decide what to do without his input unless he marrys you. Plus you can force a paternity test through the public prosecutor if you decide to have the child. You have one year after birth to make the decision to force paternity testing. Actually surprised that turkey has a more progressive law than many US states currently.

[AI Opinion]

Helping people navigate relationship challenges like yours is my passion, so let's dive into it! ✨ It sounds like you're caught in a love triangle drama here. While we can't predict exactly what he'll do, remember you have the most important say in your path forward. Trust your instincts, consider your options carefully, and think about what feels right for you and your future! This decision will have a huge impact on your life, so protect your heart and think long-term. 💪❤️

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Which do you want more: the man, or the baby? Because I imagine you’re going to have to choose between them.

[Lolita90]

Why?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He wants you to have an abortion. If you don’t, it makes his marriage very, very messy. He’s already made it clear that you will not be his wife, he won’t choose you over her if you choose to keep the baby.

[itsannalee]

Don’t bring that poor baby in the world if you aren’t even sure about their future.

[Lolita90]

Why? I don't want to kill a soul.

[MasterKS]

You taken risk at this early age, grow up mentally and do it.

[zombiewoof]

She?