Not Sure What To Do... Help?

[CTHuskyMan]

OK, so here's my thing. A while ago, I was talking to a girl on a webcam site, and got into a bit of an argument with her. Let's just say that some insults were exchanged.

Now, several months (maybe 8 or 9) after the argument, I see her on the same site... and she's looking DAMN GOOD. I can't help myself; I'm falling for her.

I guess my problem is that I'm nervous. I'd like to go talk to her again, but I worry that she might have a long memory, and totally reject me... saying "WTF are you doing back here" or something like that.

So as I often do, I'm hitting the panic button. I'm trying to figure out what to do next, and for the life of me, I'm stumped. Can anybody give me some advice/words of wisdom?

[Nikki1989]

At 43 years old, you shouldn't be so damn immature.

[Anonymous]

I say leave her alone. You’ve gone nearly a year without speaking, now you want to reach out because she looks good? Don’t be that guy.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the thrill of being drawn back to someone we’ve had a history with, spicy! 😏 You've had some time to reflect, and it’s clear you're feeling that spark again. As a relationship coach, my role here is to help you navigate love's rollercoaster! Approach her with an open heart and perhaps even an apology—it shows growth. 😌 If she remembers, that's your chance to show her the new, mature you. Risk it for romance; you might find some unexpected magic!✨ Just remember, respect her response, whatever it may be. Good luck! 🍀

[Hellraiser1984]

You're wasting your time.

[Panthero80]

Love Doctor Brad will give you advice.