HELP Please... What should I do?

[Anonymous]

HELP
Someone came to me and said with the boy you are in relationship is not worthy enough he talks to 100 girls like you everyday... and he is not loyal to you... you know nothing about him and he is a Playboy... i know I'm since years... he is playing with you with his sweet behaviour. i am your friend so that's why I am awaring you. other than this he also said that you deserve a sweet person like me , we both are same , you should be with me instead.. I don't know why you chose him.

PS: I'm so confused rn... and i have so many questions running in my mind rn... i just can't digest that... what should I do? should I clear up things with him? should I ask him about this? should I ask him about everything?

[Anonymous]

Did this person contact your via social media? Ask them to show you proof that he is talking to these other girls and show you proof of him being a player. The last thing you want to do is ask this guy and it turns out this girl is his ex or someone wanting to be with the guy causing problems

[Asker]

I asked him for proves but he denied to do that he just said i am awaring you

[Opinion Owner]

So this person isn't will to provide you with evidence to back up what they are saying. I would be very sus about why they would randomly contact you and refuse to provide evidence.

I would definitely hold off asking this guy questions about him talking to other girl. Maybe randomly ask the guy you are in a relationship with how he feels about making your relationship official on social media and posting a photo of you 2 together. If he refuses or acts weird about it. Yeah than I would be concerned

[Guy13]

Back off and get some perspective for a week before acting

[Asker]

You i mean i should wait for a week?
And cause of this i unable to behave normally with him since yesterday

[Guy13]

Yes. I think you should handle it and not jump to conclusions. The way I see it is you do not know the truth in anyone. Time needs to pass before jumping to conclusions. Separating from all for a month is what I would do. There’s lots to deal with and discomfort is probably 6 months in time. Boy-this one SUCKS ‼️

[Wise4myage]

So, talking to other girls doesn't mean he wants to date.

[Wise4myage]

Have you talked to him about this?

[Asker]

Ikr but what he is disloyal for real

[Asker]

No not yet

[Wise4myage]

Then make sure he knows how you feel.

[Asker]

I don't know what to ask and how to start that convo

[Wise4myage]

Well, then maybe you shouldn't be dating in the first place.

[Asker]

I know right... i believed him.. i still do but bcos of that guy it's getting so messed up... and there r so many questions running in my mind.

[panamared1]

Talk to him