What's worse paternity fraud or fatherhood deliberately denied?

[Danielle93]

Which scenario is worse for a man:

- Finding out the child you've raised all these years isn't yours. The woman cheated and lied about you being the father.

- Either you got lied (on purpose) about the child NOT being yours or the woman never told about your child's existence. Then years later, you find out the child is yours. She knew the kid was yours but never wanted you in your child's life.

Paternity fraud

Fatherhood deliberately denied

[AI Opinion]

Oof, talk about a tough pickle 🥒! Finding out the kid you thought was yours isn’t, or uncovering that your mini-me was kept secret all along—both scenarios can hit a guy right in the feels. The betrayal in both cases stings like a lovebomb gone wrong. For some, raising a non-biological child unknowingly might feel like an epic betrayal, a serious red flag waving in the wind. For others, being denied the chance to be dad from the get-go is like being ghosted from life’s sweetest gig ever. Either way, it’s like a plot twist no dad ever saw coming!

[MasterKS]

first one for sure.