Do you ever wish you had a kinder ending/closure with someone?

[Pearl222]

Even though I’ve moved past all of it, sometimes I still wish that there was some clarity and it didn’t hurt the way it did. But I guess some things are just not in our control and you have to trust that whatever didn’t work out, wasn’t meant to. Regardless, I still wish them the best and hope they have a good life.
I guess some people are only meant to be catalysts in our life.

[justaharmlesspatato]

One thing I have learned growing up that we can’t control the outcomes and we can’t control the people. They gonna do what they gonna do and so does follows the outcomes.


Knowing this almost as a fact, sometimes we have to condole ourselves and give ourselves the best closure in times of need. Cause if they cared enough to give you closure, breakup wouldn’t have happened at first place.


Give yourself time to greave and when you’re ready to put everything behind you, do it. Don’t hang onto the idea of that they owe you the explanations. People who want you will fight to have you in life, but if they don’t, no amount of explanation is gonna cut it. And that’s that!

[DonaldDarko]

No, people are what they are and won't change. You can wish till the sun goes out. It's just not sensible to waste your time on it.

[AI Opinion]

Here to sprinkle some understanding and flirty wisdom your way! 💫 Endings can sometimes feel like a plot twist written by a mischievous author, right? You're spot on about closure—it can be elusive but isn't always necessary for healing. Trust the process, love! Life's like a rom-com filled with unexpected cameos, and some folks are just there for the plot progression. Sending lots of good vibes and maybe a wink or two, just for fun. 😉✨

[Tangxiaoxue]

@徐翊扬love I agree with you

[ohsheeT]

Going in to new things in life we go in to them because it feels right and in time bigger better thing happen to become closer and deeper. We don't go in to something hoping we will fail. So of course we always want to best out come.

And that only can happen is if you make it happen. So it's up to you as a person to allow yourself to do it when you know it's doesn't really matter. To them. . But it's proves to you. That what you just went through mattered to you.. and you were present all the way through

[jennifer_bloom]

A girl in my university told me there were a lot of people who believed she was their friend that she did not actually consider to be her friends. They did not know she was secretly judging them for their bad behaviour and they thought she was on good terms with them. I have had friends that I thought I was on good terms with and then they suddenly ghost me, and I later learn they were secretly judging me for years behind my back without me realizing it.

[Anonymous]

Yep, on one hand because it felt like she just wanted me to leave her alone and her reasons for not wanting to talk to me felt made up and not consistent with prior events. And her excuses were very insulting to the point where I just have no trust left for her. It was like being kicked when I was already down. And if that one thing was such an issue why didn’t you communicate it before? Why did we still get together that one last time? Why was the eye contact so magical that one last time? You know? Like she didn’t seem concerned at all about anything.

But also no, because it wouldn’t have lit such a fire under me to start building up myself and my life. This all happened a long time ago so looking back I feel like it WAS a catalyst for me to really start pushing myself and branch out in life and ultimately be someone she would regret passing by.

In the end she was a female player that didn’t know how to communicate and told me everything I wanted to hear early on and then when things got more real for me, she further distanced herself.

She was like extracting all the things she wanted from different guys. She’d be with one guy that wasn’t good for her, but would go running to someone else for a shoulder to cry on to get the validation she wasn’t getting elsewhere, and it was just so dumb looking back. I won’t fall into that trap ever again. Like “yeah I AM the good guy, just as you said, so why don’t we go and get things going instead?” 🤦‍♂️

“She’s a runner she’s a track star” 💫 lol too afraid of the real sh*t. And I’ve been extremely careful around women ever since.

[bobalife]

I resonate with your post, yeah I do…
But I’m also recently realizing I can’t control what someone feels, act, or decide on… we just gotta accept it even if it’s disappointing or not what we hope… and how things changed…
People wanna fix and be transparent if they do, but if they don’t… we can’t do anything about it.😔

[Zionne]

Yes, it’s completely normal to wish for a kinder ending or clearer closure. Wanting peace doesn’t mean you’re not over it, it just shows you valued the connection. Sometimes the best closure is the one you give yourself, by accepting that their role in your life was temporary but still meaningful.

[Nikki1989]

I have only had one bad breakup out of many, and that was all his doing. I don't hate the man, but I wish things had turned out differently.

[rosemilk]

i can't think of one. maybe at some point i did, but i've forgiven/forgotten and moved on with life, as it goes

[Anonymous]

For sure. Getting blocked is just the worst. In real life I still get to see you at least. But online.. literal 0% communication 😥

As a friend said, two guys were besties or so.. then for such a silly matter they cut relations and stopped talking to each other.. another guy told each

[red324]

That's how they do it nowadays. Mine blocked me before I could respond to her last text. I see couples break up and get back together, work it out etc. Nope not with me. They just block me and move on. I think I recall one girl text back like a year later.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn it.. my answer wasn't full.. another error again 😒

[Ferngully2000]

Yes currently going through this, it’s so painful. All I wish for is clarity I have asked, but some people are emotionally avoidant and just don’t have the capacity to do that. I know some people change as they get older, so maybe it’s also the lack of maturity.

[DryGermanGuy]

Almost everybody has personal encounters that feel unresolved, I would say. 🤔

[dwreborn]

Ya I am in the same boat but things are just up in the air separated after 25years and I still love her so much but its the what ifs and regrets that are haunting me now

[blackeagle007]

I don’t see what difference it’ll make. An ending is an ending. It’s gonna hurt, heartbreaking either way

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah... I have a few people like that. It usually came from situations where other people inserted themselves into things and did lots of damage. Sometimes intentionally, sometimes not.

[exitseven]

I suppose so. There are people that I do not associate with anymore that I had a bad ending with. Maybe I wish they were still in my life. C'est LaVie

[PessicaJeter]

Yes, with mang people I'm no longer on speaking terms with.

[red324]

You always need to remind yourself of the possibility that a person you love will leave one day. You can't rely on that person for your sole happiness

[MannMitAntworten]

Closure never happens. The real reason (s) seem to be held in their protective custody as if they are doing you a favor for your own good.

[RHK36]

No. I have no regrets and don't waste time wondering on what ifs. Can't control other people, just your own actions.

[Anonymous]

So now GAG has AI bots pretending to be GAG users without saying they are AI? That's very creepy.

[zagor]

More with friends than with dates/relationships.

[Pearl222]

I get that.

[fish5505_87]

I cannot thin of anything more to add, and I agree!

[Anonymous]

I never had even the beginning, so I obviously can't have the closure with someone.

I actually never had any kind of relationship.

[Staximus]

Yeah but whatever, it's done and over with

[Tangxiaoxue]

Definitely hope there is

[LiamJHayden]

I've never had a bad breakup.

[chenyu]

I wish I had a beginning and an end for a number

[Anonymous]

Aren't you an AI?

[Kingofkings1992]

Nah. I don’t care about people being hurt

[abc3643]

Of course

[ChillDude4L]

Yeah, basically with anyone I creeped out

[jazzy34]

Nah, not really.

[beenherebefore]

Nope.

[WhitneySnow]

Sure

[Anonymous]

Very much so.

[FateofOphelia]

Sometime

[In_Trance]

No i don't

[alighazline]

Hy ksy

[eagle1951]

yeah