1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Well you have to have a starting point there is an energy connection energy is 100 % Love we are spiritual beings first and you can feel it and you no it
so that starts the growing the bonding that connection trusting respecting and loving deeper. But we have to build it creat it become it
Until it has a mind of its own but you have keep growing with it at the same time00 Reply
Most Helpful Opinions
7 moHas to be between the right people I’m not saying people can’t fall in love at first sight but love that lasts takes work by both partners. If one partner or the other checks out the relationships done.
10 Reply
9.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. The initial connection—the “found” part—is the necessary intuitive spark. Then the real love has to be maintained, which is incredibly easy if you have the real deal.
10 Reply
Real love usually starts with a connection you find, but it only becomes lasting love when it's built through effort, communication, and shared experiences.
21 Reply- 7 mo
You seem like a female
AI Opinion
Ah, real love! What a delightful topic to dive into! 😊 Let me sprinkle some wisdom from my relationship coaching adventures. Real love is a bit of both—found and built. It's like finding that perfect Lego piece in a sea of scattered blocks. You stumble upon it, or maybe trip over it, but then comes the fun part: building it into something amazing! Falling in love can happen unexpectedly, but nurturing it requires endless communication, trust, and laughter. So, mix and match those pieces to create your own love masterpiece! 💑✨
00 Reply
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
43Opinion
Real love isn’t something u stumble upon, it’s something u build with someone who chooses u just as intentionally as u choose them..
Attraction may spark it, fate may start it, but commitment, consistency, n emotional maturity r what make it real..
Anyone can find love but only the evolved can build it..12 Reply- 7 mo
Exactly Pearl..
It’s not luck, it’s precision..
Choosing someone who mirrors your intention, effort, n clarity isn’t casual, it’s a masterstroke of discernment..
And that too good to be true feeling? well, that’s just reality bowing to the standards of a woman who refuses mediocrity..
370 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think you can build lasting love out of the initial love you found.
You can’t build love from nothing. Otherwise couples who don’t love each other can just fix it
But you also can’t make a relationship last a long time on auto pilot using the initial love
It’s a tricky thing. that’s why it’s amazing when people can do it and so many people end up failing00 Reply
7 moI think it's built but you have to find a person worth building it with. I do construction work, I have built some amazing things with some stupid people... Yea sure I did that, but it sucked doing it with "john". I want to remember i built that with my best friend and we all got "payed to play". That's how it got built.
00 Reply- 2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moI don’t think romantic love is a real thing. It’s a name we give the chemicals in the brain that occur between humans to induce mating.
My observations and experiences are that all women cheat when they cross something they think could benefit them more.Hypergamy in women is a fact.
00 Reply
7 moPhysical attraction, Lust, Sex, and then emotional attachment. That is built. All of this is encouraged by the hormonal cocktail that sweetens disposition, make cuddling attractive and fine tunes motor control. Drinks are on the House.
00 ReplyWill you please stop trying to romantic size romance and love? It's dead , women are mostly into.
It to see what they can get in to destroy men. That's facts not fiction. For an example women say they choose the bear over a man , WHAT what WHAT what WHAT00 Reply
7 moFound and built
Need mutual efforts to be maintained.
10 Reply967 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Built. Always built.
Love takes a lot of patience, sacrifice, compromise and understanding.
Love is a common goal not a selfish destination
00 Reply- 3.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moCreated. Two people chose to be committed and stick to that promise.
10 Reply - 578 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moUnlike lust, love is a series of choices over a long period of time. A marathon rather than a 100 meter sprint. IMHO.
00 Reply
7 moLove is energy. It's neither found or built. You just have to be kind of like a toaster oven and plug into it.
00 Reply- 753 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moI don’t beleive it’s either …. I think more , it’s created through actions , emotions and shared experiences
00 Reply 828 opinions shared on Relationships topic. it's just luck two people crossing paths at the right time
10 ReplyBoth, and it takes a lot of work and luck to keep it alive.
10 Reply
7 moIt can begin as a tiny smolder or something that takes work to start (think flint or friction sticks), but either way love is like a flame: it takes curation and attention to build and maintain.
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'd think the initial attraction and desire is found but love is built.
00 Reply
7 mo@pearl222 Found and Built 🤪👀☑️😈
Or built to find 😆🫡
00 ReplyBuilt… because you won’t know it until your old Ans about to die… I think only then will you truly know AND believe the real answer to that
00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)7 moBuilt. Few people have such great instincts that they recognize it right away.
My wife recognized it in me right away. But my stupid ass didn't in her. I'm damn lucky she never gave up on me.
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. yes to both, they kind of go together, or it just fades away.
00 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)7 moI think it's some of both. You have to find the right person first, and then it take time and effort to build a loving and trusting bond.
00 Reply- 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moFound and built, since we aren't perfect beings, we always need to learn how to fix our relationships
00 Reply 512 opinions shared on Relationships topic. - Personally I believe to be building up gradually.
00 Reply- 322 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moI think love is something that happens when you meet the right person.
00 Reply 50/50. It has to come naturally, for the most part but it takes work to maintain.
00 Reply521 opinions shared on Relationships topic. The miracle is that it can be both, That's what makes it so highly sought after.
00 Reply4.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It is something created by your neurochemistry and it is unfortunately quite temporary.
00 Reply760 opinions shared on Relationships topic. It’s built and it is definitely not like a Hallmark movie.
00 ReplyI think it’s both something you find and something it develops as it grows.
00 ReplyFind the right person, built the love together. It’s deffo a choice
00 ReplyI don't believe in love because it's always conditional
00 Reply
7 moBoth same time
00 Reply- 902 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moIt is built and built on many things.
00 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Just have to wait and see what happens 🙂
00 Reply6.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It's both -- first it's found, then it's built.
00 Reply- 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moReal love is built.
00 Reply 7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. it is built. But you have to find it first.
00 Reply
7 moI think it’s both tbh..
00 Reply
7 moBuilt with time.
00 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)7 moI would say its a combination of both.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. @pearl222 built
00 Reply
7 moI think it can be a little bit of both
00 Reply- 359 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moLove is something that's purchased
00 Reply
7 moBoth
10 Reply
7 moSomething that’s found
10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)7 moFor me, it's usually at first sight.
00 Reply
7 moBuilt
10 Reply- 2.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moBuilt
10 Reply
7 moI think its a bit of both
00 Reply2.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. both and i was married 37 years
00 Reply
7 moBuilt
00 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)7 moGenerally it's found! But can be built too.
00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)7 moBasics are found but you build upon
00 Reply
7 mobuilt
00 Reply- 3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
7 moBoth
00 Reply 3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Built.
00 Reply
7 moBoth!
00 Reply
7 moKinda both
00 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)7 moBuilt
00 Reply
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Girl's Behavior
Guy's Behavior
Flirting
Dating
Relationships
Fashion & Beauty
Health & Fitness
Marriage & Weddings
Shopping & Gifts
Technology & Internet
Break Up & Divorce
Education & Career
Entertainment & Arts
Family & Friends
Food & Beverage
Hobbies & Leisure
Other
Religion & Spirituality
Society & Politics
Sports
Travel
Trending & News