Do you think real love is something that’s found or built?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Well you have to have a starting point there is an energy connection energy is 100 % Love we are spiritual beings first and you can feel it and you no it
so that starts the growing the bonding that connection trusting respecting and loving deeper. But we have to build it creat it become it
Until it has a mind of its own but you have keep growing with it at the same time

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

Has to be between the right people I’m not saying people can’t fall in love at first sight but love that lasts takes work by both partners. If one partner or the other checks out the relationships done.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

The initial connection—the “found” part—is the necessary intuitive spark. Then the real love has to be maintained, which is incredibly easy if you have the real deal.

Zionne · Accepted Answer

Real love usually starts with a connection you find, but it only becomes lasting love when it's built through effort, communication, and shared experiences.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Ah, real love! What a delightful topic to dive into! 😊 Let me sprinkle some wisdom from my relationship coaching adventures. Real love is a bit of both—found and built. It's like finding that perfect Lego piece in a sea of scattered blocks. You stumble upon it, or maybe trip over it, but then comes the fun part: building it into something amazing! Falling in love can happen unexpectedly, but nurturing it requires endless communication, trust, and laughter. So, mix and match those pieces to create your own love masterpiece! 💑✨

AvaRay · Answer

Real love isn’t something u stumble upon, it’s something u build with someone who chooses u just as intentionally as u choose them..

Attraction may spark it, fate may start it, but commitment, consistency, n emotional maturity r what make it real..

Anyone can find love but only the evolved can build it..

Zack-Bann · Answer

I think you can build lasting love out of the initial love you found.

You can’t build love from nothing. Otherwise couples who don’t love each other can just fix it

But you also can’t make a relationship last a long time on auto pilot using the initial love

It’s a tricky thing. that’s why it’s amazing when people can do it and so many people end up failing

aaron13547 · Answer

I think it's built but you have to find a person worth building it with. I do construction work, I have built some amazing things with some stupid people... Yea sure I did that, but it sucked doing it with "john". I want to remember i built that with my best friend and we all got "payed to play". That's how it got built.

LogicBomber · Answer

I don’t think romantic love is a real thing. It’s a name we give the chemicals in the brain that occur between humans to induce mating.
My observations and experiences are that all women cheat when they cross something they think could benefit them more.

Hypergamy in women is a fact.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Physical attraction, Lust, Sex, and then emotional attachment. That is built. All of this is encouraged by the hormonal cocktail that sweetens disposition, make cuddling attractive and fine tunes motor control. Drinks are on the House.

stayorgo · Answer

Will you please stop trying to romantic size romance and love? It's dead , women are mostly into.
It to see what they can get in to destroy men. That's facts not fiction. For an example women say they choose the bear over a man , WHAT what WHAT what WHAT

YourExLover69 · Answer

Found and built Need mutual efforts to be maintained.

djmzes · Answer

Built. Always built. Love takes a lot of patience, sacrifice, compromise and understanding.  Love is a common goal not a selfish destination

LiamJHayden · Answer

Created. Two people chose to be committed and stick to that promise.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Unlike lust, love is a series of choices over a long period of time. A marathon rather than a 100 meter sprint. IMHO.

RandomGirl42 · Answer

Love is energy. It's neither found or built. You just have to be kind of like a toaster oven and plug into it.

Purpleronnie · Answer

I don’t beleive it’s either …. I think more , it’s created through actions , emotions and shared experiences

driven159 · Answer

it's just luck two people crossing paths at the right time

Ironco · Answer

Both, and it takes a lot of work and luck to keep it alive.

BeechImFabulous · Answer

It can begin as a tiny smolder or something that takes work to start (think flint or friction sticks), but either way love is like a flame: it takes curation and attention to build and maintain.

RavVid · Answer

I'd think the initial attraction and desire is found but love is built.

mysteriousNicholas · Answer

@pearl222 Found and Built 🤪👀☑️😈 Or built to find 😆🫡

virgo2267 · Answer

Built… because you won’t know it until your old Ans about to die… I think only then will you truly know AND believe the real answer to that

Anonymous · Answer

Built. Few people have such great instincts that they recognize it right away.  My wife recognized it in me right away. But my stupid ass didn't in her. I'm damn lucky she never gave up on me.

Fireguy17 · Answer

yes to both, they kind of go together, or it just fades away.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's some of both. You have to find the right person first, and then it take time and effort to build a loving and trusting bond.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Found and built, since we aren't perfect beings, we always need to learn how to fix our relationships

soe11 · Answer

Personally I believe to be building up gradually.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

I think love is something that happens when you meet the right person.

dray995 · Answer

50/50. It has to come naturally, for the most part but it takes work to maintain.

Shy_Steve · Answer

The miracle is that it can be both, That's what makes it so highly sought after.

msc545 · Answer

It is something created by your neurochemistry and it is unfortunately quite temporary.

Nice222 · Answer

It’s built and it is definitely not like a Hallmark movie.

Cassie8_ · Answer

I think it’s both something you find and something it develops as it grows.

Idumcl · Answer

Find the right person, built the love together. It’s deffo a choice

Khlifi · Answer

I don't believe in love because it's always conditional

QuineJessica · Answer

Both same time

katiesmuff · Answer

It is built and built on many things.

sage2021 · Answer

Just have to wait and see what happens 🙂

slatyb · Answer

It's both -- first it's found, then it's built.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Real love is built.

exitseven · Answer

it is built. But you have to find it first.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

I think it’s both tbh..

WonderingManII · Answer

Built with time.

Anonymous · Answer

I would say its a combination of both.

Kelly6 · Answer

@pearl222 built

BruceWayne32123 · Answer

I think it can be a little bit of both

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Love is something that's purchased

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Both

princesskhya1 · Answer

Something that’s found

Anonymous · Answer

For me, it's usually at first sight.

zombiewoof · Answer

Built

WhitneySnow · Answer

Built

camihasfun · Answer

I think its a bit of both

eagle1951 · Answer

both and i was married 37 years

bunnyboo24 · Answer

Built

Anonymous · Answer

Generally it's found! But can be built too.

Anonymous · Answer

Basics are found but you build upon

austinbooth · Answer

built

dudeinohio · Answer

Both

Twalli · Answer

Built.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Both!

Celticwolf78 · Answer

Kinda both

Anonymous · Answer

Built

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