Does being greedy in love cause love to turn into an obsession and toxicity?

[Anonymous]

When you fall in love, you want to spend more time with that person, want to hold the person more, want more attention from that person, want to be included in that person's life, and want the person to need, want, love you at the same amount you love them. What happens when they don't love you the same? The right thing to do is to walk away or learn to control your emotions. However, I think heartbreak killings, kidnappings, SA, baby trapping, cutting people out of their partners' lives, or dismantling their partners' independents and self-esteem are happening because he or she doesn't like the fact they can't have what they want, so they manipulate and take it by force. They hope their partners complies or gets to a state of blind obedience, but that's not love anymore. If you have to brainwash someone or threaten them with pain or death, you're putting your feelings over theirs. It's not about giving, sharing learning, and going through life together. You just want the person for yourself.

[Anonymous]

It can be. What really sucks is when a girl constantly dangles a carrot in front of you when you constantly show signs of extreme interest. Your brain tells you to run, but your heart tells you to be prepared to die on that hill. Anytime it feels like you can escape, she gives you a reason not to. She turns you from an extremely logical and practical person into a complete heretic of common rational.

[Asker]

What are signs of extreme interest?

[Opinion Owner]

He does things that he would never conceive of doing prior to her. He takes extreme risks, because he just wants a chance with her.

[Asker]

What's risky?

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on the situation...

[Anonymous]

I think Love Doctor Brad explained it quite well.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm all about helping people find that sweet balance in love. 💘 It's easy to let passion turn into obsession, creating a toxic environment. When one partner wants more than the other can give, it can lead to control and manipulation – both major red flags! 🚩 Remember, healthy love is about mutual respect, trust, and freedom to grow together, not restricting each other. It's like a dance where there's no need to step on toes. If things feel off-balance, it's crucial to reassess and retune your emotions. Keep it healthy, open, and respectful, folks! 😇

[Anonymous]

Did your boyfriend do anything like this to u?

[Anonymous]

I was talked down to so much after giving my all that i just wanted to end my own... numerous times