How much political difference are you willing to tolerate in a romantic partner?

[Anonymous]

A LOT

A LITTLE

NONE AT ALL

NOT SURE

A total of 60 votes were cast: 21 girls and 39 guys. See detailed results

[ohsheeT]

First of all you both have to understand the right and the left are the same people

They are nothing but puppets

Each side it's money from secret societies to win their election.\nFrom the moment they get elected , they're under their thumb

This is why trump is such is such a conversation piece

Because\nHe is part of the rich. He knows what's going on. He will fight them to a point he see where the elite or the social societies from a hundred years back are trying to take the united states trump is unpredictable. That's why they hate Trump in there, but Trump is the only one saving our lives.\nBut only for 4 years and if the Democrats get back in office, look what musk and Trump just found out through social security, through all the money that's been laundered to all the money that's been going places that mean nothing Democrats are trying to take us to hell. Whether you like trump or not , he's the only thing it's keeping the American people afloat

So in a relationship, if you do not understand that right and left are the same exact people, they have the same exact backers, and they owe the same exact favors.

Look at every state. Is your politician doing anything? No , they're not because they're not allowed to

Every state in the United States has something going on. That politician could make better, but are they doing it? It's 2026. Are they making our lives better? No , not in the world , not in our states

It doesn't matter what you believe the truth is truth

The only difference you have is one monon's gun rights.\nAnd the other one abortion , that's the only two differences , otherwise they are identical twins.

So if you're in a relationship because you love that person , that's what it's all about

If you're relationships to fight about right and left your f****** stupid. Because it means nothing and that is sad that you still can't see what's going on in this world to fight each other. That's ridiculous

[RavVid]

If she doesn't care much about politics I don't care about what she thinks.

If she does care, i won't tolerate cause I want peaceful calm in my home.

[RavVid]

Thanks for a MHO

[DishLady]

I'm middle of the road, so I could veer 25% either way without being bothered. But I don't appreciate extremists in either direction.

[queenofcardio]

A little. We need to agree on some things

[Asker]

@queenofcardio Like?

[Asker]

@queenofcardio What do you and your romantic partner have to agree on?

[AI Opinion]

Navigating romantic waters with differing political views can be quite an adventure, darling! 🤔 It's all about mutual respect and understanding. A little political spice can keep things interesting, but if the debates overshadow the romance or become a consistent red flag, it might be time to rethink those love vibes. Communication is key, along with knowing your limits. Balance those debates with love and you'll ride the political rollercoaster just fine! 🎢❤️

[HawkPerception]

Similar views are extremely important to me. Both in core values and politics. The less views you have in common, the more conflict you'll have in a relationship.

I remember when I was with one of my exes... we were talking about neutering dogs. She was a vet tech and had a strong opinion that it was better to neuter them. She said they generally live longer and they behave better. And I disagreed with her, saying that yeah, but male humans also live longer if you castrate them, but does that mean you should? You take away the ability for them to have a family of their own, and I'd argue that having a family of your own is an instinctual desire and form of happiness, which adds value to your life. When I told her that, she got extremely upset and angry with me and didn't want to talk with me. I didn't think it was that serious... like for fucks sake, we weren't even taking care of a dog together. It was just a difference in opinion. But she really held that against me. And I tried to never bring it up and trigger her again.

I can give many scenarios, like someone who appreciates Trump vs. someone who wants him to burn in the deepest depths of hell, or if you should allow abortion or ban it, or socialism vs. capitalism, etc. But if you have people with 2 opposing views, it creates hell in a relationship.

I will always filter a girl based on what her views are before calling any relationship official.

[AviatorTom]

We can have political differences, so long as neither of us tries to force our opinions on the other, except on topics and policies we agree upon.

Sometimes you can have great political discussions/disagreements, and fantastic sex afterwards. 😏

[OlderAndWiser]

Like most conservatives, I easily tolerate disagreement.

[OneViewpoint]

These days? In the USA? It's no longer Liberal and Conservative. Conservative has become synonymous with...

• Hate
• Violence
• A total lack of empathy
• A rejection of education and a celebration of ignorance
• A rejection of science in favor of conspiracy theories
• Racism
• Misogyny
• Lying
• Cheating

I refuse to tolerate that sort of personality. Not in my friends. And certainly not in a romantic partner. I wouldn't want my kids exposed to those values. I'd be ashamed to be seen with that sort of person. She would be a reflection on me. I couldn't live with someone I don't respect.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... She cannot support abortion for obvious reasons. Like... Okay, just make Her not a feminist in general. She should support free access to firearms for our family's safety. Would be good if She supported the government not robbing me of half my salary, but it's Her problem in the end. I am somewhat stingy, whatever the government does not forcibly take from me will be used based on actual needs.

That's about it.

[BCRanger10]

My opinion is that couples should be mostly aligned with each other, most especially if they plan to marry and have children. That way they are in sync on a key aspect of how they will raise their children.

[sawno]

As far as it wouldn't interfere with our relationship or ability to raise our child. We need to be compatible to the point where there won't be disagreements on some serious things like religion, what food our child eats, vaccines or no vaccines, what happens if the kid thinks they are the other gender, etc.

If I am on the same page as my partner in all the things that matters its just so much more stable down the line.

[Zack-Bann]

I’m already fairly moderate in my views
A mix of both sides


But I can’t put up with someone who’s on the extreme side of the left


I tried and it didn’t work

[BonzoInBitburg]

My wife and I don't agree on anything politically and we often talk politics. We understand each other and don't try to change each others view.

[lilBigPotato]

I don't think politics need to play a big role in a relationship but you should still have a similar ideology.

[MrChinaski]

Marry the person that is as different from you as you can tolerate. You will grow more. Fervour is more important than spread of views in calculating whether you can tolerate it. IMHO.

[Kaneki05]

A little, and I like to play devils advocate sometimes so I'm more tolerant somewhat to the perspective I don't agree with but at some point those views becoming defending way to much of the opposite that's clearly wrong.

[msc545]

A moderate amount if it's well reasoned. I am not willing to tolerate people that support Trump because Trump is a criminal and a liar and people that support him are incapable of rational thinking. This goes far beyond political views and really into moral abuse and reality testing.

[cherrytreeblossom]

unless his political opinion is that i should wear a head scarf, stay at home and give birth to 10 children, politics would have very little influence on me in this regard.

[melssvdv]

A lot. Abandon these corrupt divide and conquer techniques fabricated by the J3ws. All of them and accept nature and realize that all politics are controlled by evil.

[Abbycado]

Everyone is going to vary a bit on views. I can tolerate that.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

As long she doesn't support gay marriage, abortion and open borders then I don't care what her politics is.

My relationship won't be based on political BS.

[Bricealan]

As long as political differences are not discussed

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

My tolerance map is supposedly inside the light green borders

[Twalli]

It really depends on how political she is. My sister almost married a guy who had very different political views than she did. Neither of them was very political, so it wasn't an issue.

[AngryCarl2]

I could never be in a relationship with a racist or neoliberal.

[Agape93]

A lot. Long as you don't vote against the rights of me and my loved ones, I don't give a fuck what party you're in.

[Nikki1989]

I don't like political people at all, but especially right-wing nutters. I have never met one that was 100% mentally stable.

[Bloodparadise]

Differences makes a relationship exciting 😊

[molonski2]

Yet another problem with polarisation..

It's not a football match.

[chase_strickland800]

If I get a girlfriend she gotta be republican or a non voting political person

[blackeagle007]

A good question. Before Trump, none of this really mattered. I think it’ll be less tensful once orange is gone

[exitseven]

maybe a little but no moonbats.

[Anonymous]

Probably not much.

[alice55]

not a lot

[loveyouoak]

None at all