WOMEN HELP- quick poll- is this behavior attractive, creepy, or insulting and should I tell her?

[Anonymous]

My wife is amazing and beautiful and I love her. I’ve always had a weird fetish that I find bold eye makeup on women so crazy sexy. In Chat GPT I keep creating photos of my wife all glammed up with sexy makeup. I get so crazy turned on doing it and looking at the photos. My wife doesn’t do more than basic skin makeup and I don’t think she knows how to.
Is my behavior creepy or hot? Should I tell her? Please comment on should I tell her.

It’s hot to do that, tell her

It’s hot to do that, but don’t tell her

It’s creepy to do that, but tell her

It’s creepy and don’t tell her

It’s insulting to do that but tell her. You never know how she’ll respond.

It insulting to do that and don’t tell her as she’ll think you don’t like her as is.

[Noredcarpet]

Just because she has never done that make up don't mean she is against it. Lots of people love all kinds of enhanced parts, there is nothing wrong about it.

I have picked out after asking if ok that is clothes etc on a partner as to me it helped him come across more, enhancing, making it more visible parts of his great personality or the color of his eyes. We are human of habits and can be we are comfortable going about our usual style or we're not interested. There are those guys that like women without make up and those who dig those with. I did notice after my now ex would wear clothes I thought did him right that he got more looks and I felt silly with pride, like, I did that!:) (with his approval).

It is to express it, feel in, if ok or not to tell her. I can only answer for myself and I have not taken it the wrong way if and when I have been given compliments but then again I only see the fun in it, experimenting with looks, fashion. Know lots of times a partner would go with me, holding hands and seeing a dress at a window of a shop and tell me he think I would look great in it. If I don't agree I go nah but I can try it on, you never know. If I don't I don't but if I agree I will wear it.

I guess you have to be delicate about how you tell her that you love her eyes and you love that sort of make up fashion if she too would like that? To try it on herself? That it makes her eyes look even more beutiful? I find things I like on both females and males without looking at it as a fetisch or what ever. If they don't agree with you they don't but you are still not in the wrong for thinking it looks good.

[HollyK21]

Have you ever talked to her about wanting to see her in that kind of makeup?

[Asker]

I think I once mentioned how hot I find it. I think she said she doesn’t know how to do that but i also think she wouldn’t want to go out in public like that. I don’t think that is who she is. She’s more reserved. I’d just love to see it at home in the bedroom once in a while.

[HollyK21]

Sounds like you’re doing too much thinking. If you aren’t sure whether or not you’ve asked her then go ahead and do it now. You’re making several assumptions about her character, basing it off what you’ve seen vs what you know.

Like you don’t know that she’s never tried that style makeup, she’s only painting a Smokey eye not the Mona Lisa. You probably just don’t see her do that anymore because for one that’s a pretty outdated style that’s making a sliiiight resurgence. Clean girl makeup has been the trend for a long time now. On top of that, there’s rarely ever an occasion for such a dramatic eye unless you were going out to a nightclub, even a bar or certain dinner outings, and how often are you guys doing any of that? Probably rarely ever, next to never (excluding dinner). So while you’ve never seen her do that style of makeup, at least give her benefit of the doubt and give her the opportunity to surprise you.

I also think it could be a good opportunity to liven up your intimacy. I won’t lie, what you’re looking for sounds very fetish-y but this is your wife, and she may be willing to step outside her comfort zone to fulfill this fantasy of yours at least once. You may feel reluctant but it’s worth a shot to at least try rather than writing her off and living in your head with the porn you watch. Which you should be trying to let go of by the way.

[Mike_Hum]

Sure. tell her. Don't mention the chat gpt stuff though.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Kinda weird and such a waste of water to use AI when you could just talk to her about your kink and see if she would be down to learning how to do that makeup, maybe you could even buy it for her

[Asker]

Oh I would. buy it for her and buy lessons from someone to teach here. I’m just not sure it’s her personality, as she’s more reserved. I’m sure she wouldn’t want to go out in public like that but I would really only like to see it in the bedroom.
Oh and the waste of water. I read AI uses a closed loop system of water so while it uses tons of water, it is reusing it and not wasting it. Google how much water one pound of almonds uses to produce. I believe the food sources we choose, which have much less resource heavy alternatives, use way more water than one or many AI searches by an individual. Look at how much water is used to pruduce one pound of beef.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So, for starters, it’s only a fetish if you need it to have sex AT ALL. If you don’t need it to get hard, it’s a kink.
Secondly, it’s worth a discussion. We don’t know your wife or how she feels about that one, specific thing.

[Asker]

Wait. Is that the difference between a kink and a fetish? I just learned something I never knew. Not about my topic, but is something a fettish and not a kink if someone can get hard without it, but it’s needed for a guy to finish?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, if you need it to cum, it’s a fetish

[queenofcardio]

You can talk to her about it.. I'm indifferent about that

[Anonymous]

Seek therapy.

[Asker]

Why seek therapy? Seek therapy if something turn you on? What will therapy do? Change what turns me on? Tell me if it’s wrong or right?

[Anonymous]

So makeup is your kink?

[Asker]

Yes. All crazy glammed up. I think it’s so crazy hot and I don’t know why I think that.

[Opinion Owner]

How does she look

[Anonymous]

It's creepy and insulting and weird