Should I spend Valentine’s Day with a male friend?

[TheLovelyWoman]

My husband is currently out of town. My friend’s wife is also out of town. My friend asks me if we can go out for dinner tomorrow night. He said just have dinner and catch up with life since we have no one to spend Valentine’s Day with.

[Anonymous]

No. You don’t want to give the slightest reason for something to come up, especially later if you get into it w your husband for whatever reasons. Besides would his wife know about this? Would your husband know about this? I don’t know too many men who would be ok w their wife spending Valentine’s Day w her male “friend.” Would you be ok if he did the same w a female friend of his? It wouldn’t look as bad if others were going as well. Valentine’s Day is about romance, so even if it is innocent the perception is seen differently.

[DryGermanGuy]

I just realized that this poster's questions aren't really questions. They are more like sexually themed "Dear Diary..." entries. The decision to jump on this guy was made before she even clicked the Send button. We are just the readers of her exploits.

[Nik1hil]

😛nailed it🤣And I think at This Point she should be more Focused on What's going down in her Home 🤣 But No!.. Valentine Thrill is necessary

[Projectmako]

@Nik1hil “nailed it” pun intended?

[Nik1hil]

@Projectmako 🤣Indeed🤣

[Apple1996]

As a married woman myself you wouldn't catch me dead out on valentines day with another man 😆 This is just crazy unless you're in a open relationship

[wkhan_87]

Ohh are you back after a long time, nice to see you again
@Apple1996

[Apple1996]

@wkhan_87 hey 😊 yes I took a break from here while I was pregnant

[wkhan_87]

Congratulations for your newborn

[bobalife]

That’s not normal… if you wanna maintain a respectful monogamous marriage don’t do it. Your choice.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode relationship vibes and protect your heart, gorgeous 😉

That’s a big red flag. Valentine’s Day is loaded with romantic energy, even if you both “pretend” it’s casual. It disrespects your husband and his wife, and blurs boundaries fast. If it’s truly innocent, reschedule for a non-romantic day or invite more people. Protect your marriage, not his ego.

[AviatorTom]

Why risk the gossip of being seen together in public. Just go to his place for dinner... and dessert. 😎

[OlderAndWiser]

Would you ask your husband and get his permission, or is this something best not mentioned to him?

[OlderAndWiser]

Will you answer this question?

[TheLovelyWoman]

Not mention

[ohsheeT]

You have to do what makes you happy

[OlderAndWiser]

No, when you are in a committed relationship, you have made a promise which should be honored. If she doesn't want to remain faithful, she should tell her husband and let him decide whether he wants an open marriage or a divorce.

[ohsheeT]

Exactly. Right or is not happy. Tell himself and walk away
So when I say you have to do what makes you happy? It's only gonna be for that day. Because there's always tomorrow and they're probably not going to be the same way as a firm believer in loyalty, commitment and commitment and being honest. If you're not happy, then walk away before you do anything, you don't need to hurt that person twice once by cheating. And then the divorce happens

[OlderAndWiser]

10-4!

[Nik1hil]

We all Know this Question is just for show, You have made your mind..

My suggestion is You Shave and Get Extra Lube & Baby Oil, and Make sure you Return Back with Detailed Valentine's 2026 story for All of us to Enjoy by 15th evening or by 16th..

And it would be Amazing if you Respectful Reply and Terminate Conversation in personal Chat, if we are Having a Valuable Conversation, I am Often left Confused Is our Conversation Over or Not, should I wait for her Reply or Not 😅😅

All the Best, I Hope you have One of the Wettest Valentine..

[David318578]

Dont you have sex all the time with other guys? Dont think dinner is a big deal. Or are you worried about being seen in public?

[TheLovelyWoman]

Seen in public

[David318578]

Then dont do it

[msc545]

Do whatever you want. Have sex with whoever you want cheat on your husband whenever you want. It's your life.

[Anonymous]

You will be fucking him next, sounds like perfect set up for an affair, side fuck, new dick, separation, divorce.

[spartan55]

Yeah, what a great idea.../s
Would you have a problem if your husband did this?

[DonaldDarko]

You're married he shouldn't even be asking you that. Small wonder people's marriages don't last.

[MrChinaski]

It sounds sweet. You're a big girl. I'm sure you can resist his wiles if it proves necessary.

[Anonymous]

Sure, why not? You are friends. Would it be any different if the friend was female and why?

[fivebyfour]

Sure why not?, but what might husband think of it?,

[Projectmako]

This totally depends on your husband and your make friend’s wife. I wouldn’t care if my wife had dinner with a male friend, but I have friends who would lose their minds if their spouse did that.

[Anonymous]

Absolutely and make sure he fucks you afterwards too

[White_Stain00]

No, you shouldn't.

[Anonymous]

So he's looking to fuck you after dinner

[Opinion Owner]

You plan on cheating on your husband because that's what the sleezebag expects and any moron with an ounce of brains can see that a mile away from that dirtbag

[TheLovelyWoman]

So mean. He is a very nice guy.

[Opinion Owner]

That's bullshit

[TheLovelyWoman]

Some guys can be nice. Not every guy is a dirtbag.

[Opinion Owner]

Well clearly the guy planning to fuck you after dinner is a dirtbag you know a sleezy scumbag

[CuriousMufuxka]

Next on Netflix..

[888theGreat]

It is cheating unless spouses knew about it

[beefcakebradybatson]

Why not?

[wkhan_87]

It's on you

[Siajanua2027]

No. Don't