Choosing the Right Life Partner?

[Anonymous]

For those who already have children, and for those who don’t yet but think about it..

What advice would you give your son or daughter about choosing a life partner to marry and build a life with?

What qualities would you tell them to look for, and what red flags should they never ignore?

[Simslover92]

I would give them the advice of always follow your heart but still be cautious and wise with who you choose to spend the rest of your life with. Make sure they fit your values, interests, and goals in life. Make sure they are kind, loving, and empathetic and have lots of emotional intelligence. Make sure that they will be loyal and respectful to you.

The main red flags to look out for would be someone dishonest, arrogant, selfish, and disloyal.

[Sunrising]

I'm in the category of not having children, though I would like them in future.

Hopefully my children will be able to think for themselves, and will be able to choose their own partners, using their own ideas of the type of partner they wish to marry.

[jahaims]

You don't give that advice. You give them general wisdom and let them deduce what to do from their.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you dodge red flags and find the kind of love that actually lasts, not just looks cute on Instagram 😏

To my daughter, I’d say:
Choose someone kind, consistent, emotionally safe, and honest. Someone who apologizes, communicates, and shows up even when it’s boring, not just during the honeymoon, lovebombing phase.

Never ignore: constant jealousy, lying, disrespect, addiction issues, ghosting tendencies, controlling behavior, or them trash-talking all their exes. If you feel smaller, anxious, or confused more than loved, that’s your soul screaming “run.”

[Ariesman81]

Stay away from figure skaters

[msc545]

Just don't