If a truly hot younger woman asks for your phone number would you give it to her?

[OneViewpoint]

What if she's asked you on 3 separate occasions?

What if she's married?

What if it seems like she may really need someone she can talk to?

[MrChinaski]

God, yes. At the least, she sounds like she wants to be friends. Maybe more.

[OneViewpoint]

I'm pretty sure the answer is she wants more. She's been pursuing me for 2+ years. I've been holding her and her friend group at arms length the entire time. She hasn't let up. I'll probably give her my number so I can have a discreet conversation with her outside of a noisy bar with my friends, her friends, and her husband floating around / hovering. She may just be infatuated with the little she knows about my background and want to know more about me. But I'm 95% sure she's locking eyes with me constantly and touching me every 10 seconds during conversations for reasons other than having an extended chat. And when I say younger, she's 9 years younger than me. But she looks like she's in her early 30's. No exaggeration. Life is strange and people can be surprising.

[MrChinaski]

Good luck, mate.

[DryGermanGuy]

Only if I have a burner phone with me. 😬

[OneViewpoint]

Dude she actually suggested that. Something to the effect... "or you could get a burner phone". The girl has obviously been thinking about having my number. For at least 3 months.

I don't need a burner phone. But she doesn't need to know that. My phone is invisible. My number is hidden and a false name and number number is what other people see. Same thing with my email accounts. My phone hops between random servers on a secure VPN network randomly. All incoming traffic is screened by an AI against an approved caller list and any unknown callers are flagged to me by the AI for resolution. I have minimal electronic footprint.

[MrChinaski]

@DryGermanGuy You know, there used to be books with everybody's numbers in them. Society worked just fine. I don't know when a means to contact someone took on nefarious risks.

[OneViewpoint]

@MrChinaski ,

Yup people think I'm an asshole for constantly griping about the flip side of a connected society and pocket computers. But it is insane what you need to do in this world today to protect your privacy, avoid scammers, and keep your data safe from corporations and criminals. Am I paranoid? Maybe. But it doesn't mean they aren't out to get me. 🤣

There's just a lot of shit I do not want in my brain that I now have to learn and maintain. Getting rid of paper and putting all those names and phone numbers in computers is where it all got complex. A computer can sift through millions of numbers in minutes.

Bet me, maybe 1% of the population is running any active Electronic Counter Measures (ECM) to protect any of their devices.

[petitedollbabee]

If the roles were reversed (since I am heterosexual) and it was a hot younger man, I would still refuse as they’re married and I’m not getting involved in that drama.

[genericname85]

generally no. if she's asked on 3 separate occasions, i would. if she was married i wouldn't. i don't care if she needs someone to talk to. i'm not her caretaker.

[OneViewpoint]

LOL, that's the difference between me and most people. I've spent most of my adult life intervening on behalf of other people all over the planet. Caretaker, guardian, protector, sentinel, idiot, or just a silent force to push events towards an ending of my choosing. Call it whatever you want. I'm good at it.

[genericname85]

it's probably the way you get alidation through gratitude and that's about it. selfless benevolence doesn't exist.

[OneViewpoint]

Wrong again. You and I have definitely lived different lives. Most of the people I intervened on behalf of didn't ask for my help or ever meet me. Like I said a silent force pushing events to a specific ending. The last thing we wanted was notoriety or to be identified, LOL.

[genericname85]

I never claimed they asked for it. That has nothing to do with it.

[OneViewpoint]

You're missing the point again. 🙄 They didn't contact me. I never contacted them. As far as they know I don't exist. So your theory about their adoration supplying my validation is just wrong. As far as they know shit just happened and they benefitted. For the most part. You have a really hard time accepting when you're wrong. Or maybe you know my life better than I do. 🤣

[genericname85]

Dude you're arguing against points I never made xD

[genericname85]

It's almostime you're arguing what you're reflecting on me instead what I actually said

[NathanDavis]

I would not give my personal number to random people, so no...

[ammar12343]

Big trap that could ruin your entire life. Control yourself boyo. It ain’t worth it.

[capriVib]

I'd give it to her, no use overthinking it, it's just a number.

[andreasderjuengere]

My phone os not for "talking".
I normally do not participate in such contemporary rites.
But then: it's just a number.

[DonaldDarko]

I'd avoid her she's probably crazy.

[OneViewpoint]

@DonaldDarko,

You may not be far from the truth. She has low impulse control. Or... she's at the end of her rope and desperate for someone she can talk to. And I'm probably the furthest personality from her husband she's ever met.

[jamesgoldman]

No, I'm not interested in younger women

[Lanniccyy]

Your young urself soo I don't know mane

[dudeinohio]

Nope. I'm unavailable.