Should I still help someone who disrespected and rejected me?

[Anonymous]

I did help.
Because I needed that small amount of attention.
I am being that open about it.
I am now going back to trying to cut them out.( I loved her before that event)

Updates

1 mo

She is moving back to her country and somehow it makes me too sad and disturbed

[Calyptomaniac]

Since you're being vague and cryptic, you have to decide if the "disrespect" and rejection is bad enough to don't want to "help" with whatever it is she needs help with. I might be able to give you something more helpful with some details or context though

[OneViewpoint]

Up to you. I'm not you. Once someone decides to close a door with me, that door is closed forever. If you allow their actions to have no consequences you lose all respect from them. You are teaching them that you are a doormat. This is never more true than interactions between a woman and a man. Learn to use the word "NO"!

[lightbulb27]

AI got it right it sounds like...

time to introspect, build inner strength, learn about you and others. don't let one choice ruin your life, but do learn from it and heal your deeper wounds, so you are better off next time.

relationships challenge you to a deep level...

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy heart stuff and stop you from breaking your own heart twice. 💔💋

You helped her for crumbs of attention, not love. That’s trauma bonding territory, not romance. She disrespected you, rejected you, and you still overgave. Huge red flag.

You’re doing the right thing cutting her out. Block, heal, glow up, and only give that sweet lovebombing energy to someone who earns it.

[Abbycado]

You already said you helped, so…