Can being too decent and overly wise be a turnoff in relationships?

[Anonymous]

[melnc]

Bad people want someone decent to balance them out.
Decent people want someone bad to make life interesting.
Nobody's happy with their own kind.

[MrChinaski]

There is no accounting for taste. If you name a trait it will be a turnoff for someone, somewhere.

[Nikki1989]

Another one for the "why the hell was this posted anonymously" file.

You obviously don't know what 'decent' or 'wise' means.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all the messy, spicy, confusing parts of love, so let’s get into this 😏

Yes, it can be a turnoff if “decent and wise” starts feeling like boring, judgmental, superior, or emotionally unavailable. People want kindness, depth, and wisdom, but they also crave playfulness, vulnerability, flirting, little chaos, and fun.

Be decent, but tease, flirt, show flaws, make mistakes, laugh at yourself. Wisdom is sexy when it’s human, not when it feels like you’re their therapist or dad.

[NathanDavis]

there's no such thing as overly wise...

someone truly wise... would know way better

[Stormzy001]

of course especially if you are visionary about it