Are unattractive men really doomed to stay single for life?

[scott04sa22]

[Chazmatazz269]

Not necessarily. Ugly dudes can still amass wealth. That is and always has been the number one way to attract women. Men can also learn other ways to be valuable and pray to meet a woman who actually values something other than looks and wealth. She will most likely not be a ten herself. So a homely fella should manage his expectations.
The uglier you are and the poorer you are, the harder you have to try to attract women. It’s not a death sentence by any means. But life will be harder than it is for the beautiful and the rich.

[AviatorTom]

No. There is someone for everyone. Sometimes it's just hard to find them.

And sometimes, things other than attractiveness come into play. I'm sure there are many gold-digger women who would marry an unattractive man who had a lot of money, and was willing to let her spend it. 😏

[AviatorTom]

Thanks for MHO

[FreyaRed]

People date usually with their equals on another side of feminine to masculine spectrum. Of course there are some deviation caused by social status and money, but it isn't more than 5%. Because group of men who are rich and have high social status isn't that big.
Ergo: 80-90% of less attractive men without wealth and high social rank should find adequate partners, if they want to.

[OneViewpoint]

Unless they are delusional and looking to walk Jessica Alba down the aisle. And looks aside some of these guys are social disasters with personality problems, slobs who can't function in society.

[4ngelic]

Depends on the degree. If they're just a bit unattractive face wise or it's the weight the problem (if theoretically they don't lose it), they're not doomed. But unfortunately if they want a partner they're going to have to look for people who look like them. Typically you see unattractive people paired together.

[NoDecision]

Some guys love fat women.

[4ngelic]

@NoDecision True, but they're generally also fat or have a fetish.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships and call out the real red flags, not your face 😏

No, unattractive men are not doomed. But relying only on looks is doomed. Women fall in love with confidence, humor, emotional safety, ambition, and consistency. If you’re kind, interesting, stable, and not lovebombing or creepy, you’ll attract someone.

Upgrade style, hygiene, posture, social skills. “Unattractive” is rarely permanent.

[NoDecision]

All they need is a great personality, and can make a woman laugh a lot, and he is a keeper, no matter what he looks like.

[Chazmatazz269]

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The oldest lie in the book.

[NoDecision]

@Chazmatazz269 Well it is true for me. Although is someone is butt ugly enough, no qualities a person has will help. 😯 Let me ask this, if you were along with some ugly girl on a desert island, would you turn her down? And I don't mean "sex".

[Chazmatazz269]

A woman’s looks don’t matter if i’m not having sex with her. This is a simple fact of evolutionary biology. The best way to ensure your bloodline continues is to create attractive offspring. This is the fact that anyone perpetuating the lie that women only care about personality are trying to hide. It’s simply not true. It has never been true.
I like to look at Patton Oswalt. He’s short, chubby and his facial features are neither attractive nor exceedingly unattractive. He’s obviously intelligent, hilarious and charming to an extent. Yet he was single most of his life; until he became famous and RICH.
Women should have been chasing him like kids chase ice cream trucks! But they didn’t. I wonder why. Hmmmmmm…..
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Or look at Phil Collins. A short, bald man who was exceedingly talented and charming, as well as being neither attractive nor particularly unattractive. He also struggled to meet women. Why weren’t women chasing him like dogs chase cars? Hmmmmmm….
Even blind people will ask their friends if their mates are attractive or not. Only people with perceivable mental deficiencies seem to not care about looks at all. Everyone else, it’s top priority for potential mates. Science doesn’t lie.

[Velocityven]

As someone that has never been in a relationship... I know it's not that about ugly or pretty. For some people it does help, but what most it should be personality, being attractive will grab you someone shallow, but for most cases it's just a headstart.

[loveslongnails]

No, especially if they have thick wallets. LOL There are also a lot of unattractive women, so perhaps they'll meet --- once they stop thinking they're really attractive!

[lilBigPotato]

Only those with unrealistic expectations and unwilling to work on themselves.

[msc545]

Work on themselves in what way? Plastic surgery?

[lilBigPotato]

@msc545 a healthier lifestyle, try different outfits, hairstyles, work on your skincare and maybe try it with a smile on your face for once. There's a lot of things you can do that get you to a level where you don't get automatically thrown into the unattractive category.
Obviously, if you deal with generic defects, injuries and other stuff, that's a different story. But that's only a minority of people complaining about being ugly.

[msc545]

If a person can afford to do the things you suggest, they don't usually get better. The psychological damage that comes from being unattractive is extremely hard to ameliorate in any comprehensive way. The expense of ameliorating something like that is extremely high. You can make all the good-faith suggestions you want, and I guarantee you, at the end of the day, what you are going to have is a slightly less ugly man who is very angry.

[FunkyMonkee]

I've had a number of women tell me I'm quite good-looking but I've still been single most of my life!

[Abbycado]

No, anyone can find a partner. It is just about leveling expectations.

[Deniz27]

There is no such thing

A beautiful girl could be bachelor

An ugly girl could be married

Just lucky

[MrChinaski]

The odds are overwhelming that there is a slightly less attractive woman somewhere that will feel she has won the lottery.

[Paige2006]

If you have a lot of money there's always girls that are more interested in that.

[msc545]

Unless they become exceedingly rich, I would say that yes, they are.

[msc545]

Money is more important to women than anything else. If a man becomes extremely rich, women are going to overlook his appearance in order to get the benefit of his money. This, of course, does not mean that women are not going to be sleeping with more attractive men on the side, because that is very common.

[804artist]

No, there’s ugly women everywhere. Just go get one of them.

[Kvass]

Not if they date unattractive women

[Iron_Man]

no, they are not

[TonyMetal___1986]

Hell no

[MereAnarchy]

That is what 'unattractive' means.